o ask leave unless you are, possibly, the highest in
rank of the company. It is even worse to handle other people's
work, their books or other things of that nature, to go close to
them, to look at them closely without the permission of the owner,
and also to praise or find fault with them before your opinion has
been asked; to come too close to any one near by, when he is
reading his letters or anything else.
19th let your Countenance be pleasant but in Serious Matters Somewhat
grave
Chapter ii. 29. Que le visage ne paroisse point fantastique,
changeant, egare, rauy en admiration, couuert de tristesse, divers
& volage, & ne fasse paroitre aucun signe d'vn esprit inquiet: Au
contraire, qu'il soil ouuert & tranquille, mais qu'il ne soit pas
trop epanouey de joye dans les affaires serieuses, ny trop retire
par vne grauite affectee dans la conversation ordinaire & familiere
de la vie humaine.
The face should not look fantastic, changeable, absent, rapt in
admiration, covered with sadness, various and volatile, and it
should not show any signs of an unquiet mind. On the contrary, it
should be open and tranquil, but not too expansive with joy in
serious affairs, nor too self-contained by an affected gravity in
the ordinary and familiar conversation of human life.
20th The Gestures of the Body must be Suited to the discourse you are
upon
Hawkins i. 30. Let the gestures of thy body, be agreeable to the
matter of thy discourse. For it hath been ever held a solaesime in
oratory, to poynt to the Earth, when thou talkest of Heaven.
_(The nearest Maxim to this is one directed against excessive and
awkward gesticulation in speaking, in which it is said: "Parmy les
discours regardez a mettre vostre corps en belle posture" (While
speaking be careful to assume an elegant posture)._ 21st. Reproach
none for the Infirmaties of Nature, nor Delight to Put them that
have in mind thereof.)
Chapter iv. 6. Ne reprochez les defauts a personne, non pas mesme
de la nature, & ne prenez plaisir a faire confusion a qui que ce
soit, par vos paroles.
[Sidenote: Hawkins adds: "which by no Art can be amended."]
Reproach none for their Infirmities--avoid it equally when they are
natural ones--and do not take pleasure in uttering words that cause
any one shame, whoe
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