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prove to you that all men are not unworthy of trust. After I justify your confidence you will be happier for the rest of your life." In the illustration the objection is dealt with _emotionally; because its basis is feeling_. No _mental_ appeal is made. The salesmanship in this example is the direct converse of that in the previous illustration. [Sidenote: The Best Rule] Usually, however, it is best to counteract objections by making appeals to _both the heart and the mind_ of the objector. In most cases it is safe to assume that his mental opposition involves his feelings to some degree, and it rarely happens that an objection is so purely emotional that the mind of the prospect does not take part in it at all. So the rule of masterly salesmanship is to use neither the appeal to mentality nor the appeal to feeling _exclusively_, but rather to _stress one or the other, while using both_. If the objection appears to be based _principally_ on opposition of _mind_, it is more important to reach into the prospect's _mind_ with the answer than it is to draw out his _heart_; and vice versa. [Sidenote: Emotional and Mental Tones] If the thought behind the objection arises principally from _feeling_, it will nearly always be expressed in an _emotive tone_. By this pitch of the prospect's voice you can determine whether he is speaking chiefly from his heart or from his mind. Conversely, of course, the _mental_ objection will be pitched in the high "head" tone. One of the most difficult features of dealing with opposition from the other man is uncertainty as to _how much he means_ of what he says and does. It would be a mistake to take his resistance too seriously or too lightly. Therefore it will aid your salesmanship a great deal if you are able to discriminate between the mental and the emotional tones in which opposition is expressed. You can reply accordingly. [Sidenote: The Power Pitch] It is almost as important that you recognize _the pitch of power_ when it reenforces the words of objection, and that on the other hand you note when the power tone is _lacking_. In the first case you will need to reply with considerable force, whether you appeal to the mind or the heart of the prospect. But when his objection is stated in a powerless tone, even though it may be accompanied by curtness or bluster, you need not waste much force on your answering appeal to his mentality or his emotions. [Sidenote: Keep Ears A
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