FREE BOOKS

Author's List




PREV.   NEXT  
|<   54   55   56   57   58   59   60   61   62   63   64   65   66   67   68   69   70   71   72   73   74   75   76   77   78  
79   80   81   82   83   84   85   86   87   88   89   90   91   92   93   94   95   96   97   98   99   100   101   102   103   >>   >|  
e well through middle life. At sixteen we had to look after other people, but they shirk responsibility, till women of thirty are content to be like birds of the air, just amusing themselves, and feeling no call to be of any serious use." I said, "Well, _I_ do not like to see even a girl of eighteen with no _raison d'etre_, 'living like a prize animal!'" Why were you born? God thought about you, and took trouble about you, and has something you can do for Him. To exist beautifully is not enough! Have you definite duties, which you stick to even though they bore you, _e.g._, house duties, or reading aloud, or lessons with the younger ones? If not, find some! Marcus Aurelius counted each day lost in which he could not at night look back on something he had done for others. Jeremy Taylor, in the "Golden Grove," says:--"Suppose every day to be a day of business: for your whole life is a race and a battle; a merchandise, a journey. Every day propounds to yourself a rosary or chaplet of works, to present to God at night." I have given you three pieces of advice-- I.--Vote on the right side in conversation. II.--Show that you love your mother. III.--Put salt into every day. I would end with one more. I take it from Saint Simon, that clever on-looker at the Court of Louis XIV. whose memoirs are famous. His morning greeting to himself was-- _"Get up, M. le Comte! you have great things to do to-day."_ You will all of you go out to lives that you _can_ make empty and self-indulgent and narrow if you like; you _can_ shirk duties and eat capriciously or intemperately, and lie in bed too long; you _can_ idle about all day amusing yourself, and fill your mind with dress and gossip and spite;--perhaps you would feel there was "no harm" in such a life! _No harm!_ I would rather hear you were dead than that you lived a life like that! On the other hand, every day of your life you _can_ make the wings of your soul grow by an honest bit of self-denial, by an honest bit of work for others, by an honest bit of mental work. Every day you can be _more worth having_; there is not one of you here who has not the power to make herself--and to _pray_ herself--into a noble, dutiful woman. _"Get up, M. le Comte! you have great things to do to-day."_ [Footnote 3: Gray's Letters to W. Mann.] A Friday Lesson. Our course of lessons for this term brings us to-day to Jephthah's story; to decide o
PREV.   NEXT  
|<   54   55   56   57   58   59   60   61   62   63   64   65   66   67   68   69   70   71   72   73   74   75   76   77   78  
79   80   81   82   83   84   85   86   87   88   89   90   91   92   93   94   95   96   97   98   99   100   101   102   103   >>   >|  



Top keywords:

honest

 

duties

 

things

 

lessons

 

amusing

 

indulgent

 

looker

 

clever

 

intemperately

 

capriciously


narrow

 

morning

 

greeting

 

famous

 

memoirs

 

Letters

 

Footnote

 

dutiful

 

Friday

 

Jephthah


decide

 
brings
 

Lesson

 

gossip

 

denial

 

mental

 
rosary
 
living
 
animal
 
eighteen

raison

 

thought

 

definite

 

beautifully

 

trouble

 
people
 
responsibility
 

sixteen

 

middle

 

thirty


feeling

 

content

 

present

 

pieces

 
advice
 

chaplet

 

merchandise

 
journey
 

propounds

 

mother