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The austerer a woman, the sweeter her surrender. And, again,
A woman is never sweeter than in surrender. Accordingly,
"De l'audace, et encore de l'audace, et toujours de l'audace"(2) should
be the motto of every wooer. Since
Audacity if beloved of women; but it must be an audacity born of
Sincerity and educated b y Discretion. At all events
Beware timidity,--it is fatal.
(2) Danton
* * *
With women, nothing is more conquering than conquest; nothing so
irresistible as resistance. On the other hand,
Resistance on the part of the woman is an effort put forth for the
purpose of defeating its own object.
* * *
A man prizes only what he has fought for. No one knows this better than
a woman. This is why
A woman's capitulation she always makes to appear as a capture. And
Where there are no defense works, a woman will erect them.
Foolish that man who does not storm entrenchments. For
Resistance on the part of a woman is a wall which a man is expected to
leap. His agility is the measure of her approbation.
* * *
Arouse a woman's interest, and you arouse much. But
Having failed, disappear. Yet
It takes very many futile attempts to make a failure. At the same time,
Importunity is an inferior weapon.
* * *
A conditional surrender is no surrender. But
A woman's surrender is in reality a desertion, a going over to the enemy.
Thenceforward she is an ally. Indeed
A woman's capitulation is her conquest.
* * *
Let no amount of simulated austerity deter you. The marble Galatea came
to life at the prayer of a man.
* * *
The number of modes in which a woman can say 'Yes' has not, up to the
present, be accurately enumerated; but perhaps the one most frequently in
use is the negative imperative. And
Many are the men who have puzzled long and painfully over the motives of
a woman's 'No.' Yet in nine cases out of ten a woman says 'No' merely
because she feels herself on the brink of saying 'Yes'. In other words,
It is often mistrust of herself that leads many a woman to refuse it will
the lips the consent that is fluttering at her heart. Perhaps that is
why
With woman 'Yea' and 'Nay' are meaningless and interchangeable terms.
* * *
'Ware a show of excessive feeling. It is proof, either that it is
shallow and evanescent, or that it is put on. At all events
Excessive feeling is rarely taken seriously. Now
Seriousness adds a spice to gallantry. But, l
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