here no one admits the superiority of another, even if
he really be so, where the man with the spade in his hand will beard the
millionaire, and where you are compelled to submit to the caprice and
insolence of a domestic, or lose his services, it is evident that every
man must from boyhood have learnt to control his temper, as no
ebullition will be submitted to, or unfollowed by its consequences. I
consider that it is this habitual control, forced upon the Americans by
the nature of their institutions, which occasions them to be so
good-tempered, when not in a state of excitement. The Americans are in
one point, as a mob, very much like the English; make them laugh, and
they forget all their animosity immediately.
One of the most singular points about the lower classes in America is,
that they will call themselves ladies and gentlemen, and yet refuse
their titles to their superiors. Miss Martineau mentions one
circumstance, of which I very often met with similar instances. "I once
was with a gentleman who was building a large house; he went to see how
the men were getting on; but they had all disappeared but one. `Where
are the people?' inquired he. `The _gentlemen_ be all gone to
_liquor_,' was the reply."
I bought one of the small newspapers just as I was setting off in a
steam-boat from New York to Albany. The boy had no change, and went to
fetch it. He did not come back himself, but another party made his
appearance. "Are you the _man_ who bought the newspaper?" "Yes,"
replied I. "The _young gentleman_ who sold it to you has sent me to pay
you four cents."
A gentleman was travelling with his wife, they had stopped at an inn,
and during the gentleman's momentary absence the lady was taken ill.
The lady wishing for her husband, a man very good-naturedly went to find
him, and when he had succeeded he addressed him, "I say, Mister, your
_woman_ wants you; but I telled the _young lady of the house_ to fetch
her a glass of water."
There was no insolence intended in this; it is a peculiarity to be
accounted for by their love of title and distinction.
It is singular to observe human nature peeping out in the Americans, and
how tacitly they acknowledge by their conduct how uncomfortable a
feeling there is in perfect equality. The respect they pay to a title
is much greater than that which is paid to it in England; and naturally
so; we set a higher value upon that which we cannot obtain. I have been
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