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associating yourself with him you will have the best opportunities to achieve your ambition. You are now standing in his presence. You need to size up his true character quickly in order that you may be sure of presenting your capabilities in the particular way that is likely to be most effective with him. You wish to impress this one man with right ideas of your qualities and their value. You want him to perceive that he lacks and requires just such services as you purpose to offer for sale. You realize it is unsafe for you to jump at conclusions about his characteristics. You pause briefly to size him up before presenting your proposition, rather than to proceed blindly in ignorance of his habits of thought, and with no clue to what he happens to be thinking at the time you call. You must know all it is possible to find out on the spot regarding him. [Sidenote: What Has He Done with His Birthright?] You cannot be certain of his characteristics if you judge him solely by what Nature forced on him. But you can be absolutely sure if you size him up by observing _what he has done with his birthright_, and if you are then able to _interpret_ correctly what you _perceive_. Your prospect has had nothing to do with the shape and size of his head. His fair or dark complexion is inherited. He is utterly unable to control the color of his hair or eyes. His _muscle structure_, however, is a _development_ that he has accomplished himself. If he has a firm jaw, the jaw _muscles_, not the jaw _bone_, signify the characteristics of a firm mentality. _Judge the physical man he has made by his habits of living under the government of his mind._ Disregard such physical details of his appearance as he cannot help. The _made_ man is the true image of the ego. It is this _ego_ of your prospective employer you need to know, for your chance to succeed in your purpose with him depends on the _inner_ man you must convince and persuade. Therefore restrict your size-up to the discriminative observation of the _muscle signs of his mind habits and mind actions_. [Sidenote: Recall Burbank Method] Recall now, or re-read the second chapter of this book. There you studied the principles of restrictive-discriminative growth--the Burbank method of developing selected qualities of manhood. That chapter related to your cultivation of particular characteristics within _yourself_. The same principles will guide you with equal certainty in acquiring
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