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forms of children's service in the home which have come under your observation. 3. What forms of community service can be done by children and by young people? 4. Recall any lessons learned by activity in your early home life. 5. Give in their order, according to your judgment, the potencies for religious character in the home. FOOTNOTES: [12] A short list of books on child activity in the home is appended at the end of this chapter; a fairly complete list, long enough for any family, will be found on p. 117 of _The Church School_, by W.S. Athearn. [13] See W.N. Hutchins, _Graded Social Service for the Sunday School_. CHAPTER VIII THE HOME AS A SCHOOL[14] The home is so mighty as a school because, requiring little time for formal instruction, it enlists its scholars so largely in informal activities. It trains for life by living; it trains as an institution, by a group of activities, a series of duties, a set of habits. If the home is to prepare for social living it will be most of all and best of all by its organization and conduct as a social institution. Sec. 1. AN IDEAL COMMUNITY For the purposes of society homes must be social-training centers; they must be conducted as communities if their members are to be fitted for communal living. No boy is likely to be ready for the responsibilities of free citizenship who has spent his years in a home under an absolute monarchy; or, as is today perhaps more frequently the case, in a condition of unmitigated anarchy. A free society cannot consist of units not free. The problems of parental discipline arise and appear as persistently irritating and perplexing stumbling-blocks in many a home simply because that home is organized altogether out of harmony and relation with the normal life in which it is set. Society environing the home gives its members the habits of twentieth-century autonomy, individual initiative and responsibility, together with collective living and working, while the home often seeks to perpetuate thirteenth-century absolutism, serfdom, and subjection. In social living outside the home we learn to do the will of all; in the home we attempt to compel children to do the will of one. Sec. 2. COMMUNITY INTERESTS The home organized as a social community will give to every member, according to his ability, a share in its guidance and will expect from every member the free contribution
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