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sband, which is done by a ceremony of walking her over it. And this he has a right to do; and when this is done she is not required to go into mourning; or, if she chooses, she has the right _to go to him_, and he is _bound_ to support her. [Illustration: FIG. 32.--Chippewa Widow.] I visited a lodge to-day, where I saw one of these badges. The size varies according to the quantity of clothing which the widow may happen to have. It is expected of her to put up her _best_ and wear her _worst_. The "_husband_" I saw just now was 30 inches high and 18 inches in circumference. I was told by the interpreter that he knew a woman who had been left to mourn after this fashion for years, none of her husband's family calling for the badge or token of her grief. At a certain time it was told her that some of her husband's family were passing, and she was advised to speak to them on the subject. She did so, and told them she had mourned long and was poor; that she had no means to buy clothes, and her's being all in the mourning badge, and sacred, could not be touched. She expressed a hope that her request might not be interpreted into a wish to marry; it was only made that she might be placed in a situation to get some clothes. She got for answer, that "they were going to Mackinac, and would think of it." They left her in this state of uncertainty, but on returning, and finding her faithful still, they took her "husband" and presented her with clothing of various kinds. Thus was she rewarded for her constancy and made comfortable. The Choctaw widows mourn by never combing their hair for the term of their grief, which is generally about a year. The Chippeway men mourn by painting their faces black. I omitted to mention that when presents are going round, the badge of mourning, this "_husband_" comes in for an equal share, as if it were the living husband. A Chippeway mother, on losing her child, prepares an image of it in the best manner she is able, and dresses it as she did her living child, and fixes it in the kind of cradle I have referred to, and goes through the ceremonies of nursing it as if it were alive, by dropping little particles of food in the direction of its mouth, and giving it of whatever the living child partook. This ceremony also is generally observed for a year. Figure 32 represents the Chippewa widow holding in her arms th
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