ays be brought in by members in unlimited numbers.
As a rule when a member introduces a stranger, he takes him to the club
personally, writes his name in the visitors' book, and introduces him to
those who may be in the room at the time--very possibly asking another
member whom he knows particularly well to "look out" for his guest. If for
some reason it is not possible for the stranger's host to take him to the
club, he writes to the secretary of the club for a card of introduction.
Example:
Secretary,
The Town Club.
Dear Sir:
Kindly send Mr. A.M. Strangleigh a card extending the privileges
of the Club for one week.
Mr. Strangleigh is a resident of London.
Yours very truly,
Clubwin Doe.
The secretary then sends a card to Mr. Strangleigh:
The Town Club
Extends its privileges to
Mr. [HW: Strangleigh]
from [HW: Jan. 7.] to [HW: Jan. 14.]
Through the courtesy of
Mr. [HW: Clubwin Doe]
Mr. Strangleigh goes to the club by himself. A visitor who has been given
the privileges of the club has, during the time of his visit, all the
rights of a member excepting that he is not allowed to introduce others to
the club, and he can not give a dinner in the private dining-room. Strict
etiquette also demands, if he wishes to ask several members to dine with
him, that he take them to a restaurant rather than into the club
dining-room, since the club is their home and he is a stranger in it. He
may ask a member whom he knows well to lunch with him in the club rooms,
but he must not ask one whom he knows only slightly. As accounts are sent
to the member who put him up--unless the guest arranges at the club's
office to have his charges rendered to himself, he must be punctilious to
ask for his bill upon leaving, and pay it _without question_.
Putting a man up at a club never means that the member is "host." The
visitor's status throughout his stay is founded on the courtesy of the
member who introduced him, and he should try to show an equal courtesy to
every one about him. He should remember not to obtrude on the privacy of
the members he does not know. He has no right to criticise the management,
the rules or the organization of the club. He has, in short, no actual
rights at all, and he must not forget that he hasn't!
=CLUB ETIQUETTE IN LONDON, PARIS AND NEW YORK=
"In a very smart London club" (the words quoted are Clubwin Doe's) "y
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