FREE BOOKS

Author's List




PREV.   NEXT  
|<   23   24   25   26   27   28   29   30   31   32   33   34   35   36   37   38   39   40   41   42   43   44   45   46   47  
48   49   50   51   52   53   54   55   56   57   58   59   60   61   62   63   64   65   66   67   68   69   70   71   72   >>   >|  
dially welcome us to their games. They ask us to be children with them. As heartily, they would have us bespeak their company in our games; they are willing to try to be grown-up with us. I was visiting a family recently, in which there is but one small child, a boy of eight. One evening we were acting charades. Divided into camps, we chose words in turn, and in turn were chosen to superintend the "acting-out" of the particular word. It happened that the word "Psychical-research," and the turn of the eight-year-old boy to be stage-manager coincided. Every one in his camp laughed, but no one so much as remotely suggested that the word or the stage-manager be changed. "What does it mean, 'Psychical-research'?" the boy made question. We laughed still more, but we genuinely tried to make the term comprehensible to the child's mind. This led to such prolonged and lively argument that the little stage- manager finally observed: "I don't see how it _can_ mean _all_ that all of you say. Can't we let the whole-word act of it go, and act out the rest? We can, you know--'Sigh,' 'kick,' 'all'; and 're' (like in music, you know), and 'search!'" "Oh, no," we demurred; "we must do it properly, or not at all!" "Well, then," said the boy, in a quaintly resigned tone of voice, "talk to me about it, until I know what it is!" In spite of hints from the other camp not to overlap the time allotted us, in the face of messages from them to hurry, regardless of their protests against our dilatoriness, we did talk to that little eight- year-old boy about "Psychical-research" until he understood its meaning sufficiently to plan his final act. "If he is playing with us, then he _is_ playing with us," his father somewhat cryptically remarked; "and he must know the details of the game." This playing with grown-ups does not curtail the play in which children engage with their contemporaries. There are games that are distinctly "children's games." We all know of what stuff they are made, for most of us have played them in our time--running-games, jumping-games, shouting- games. By stepping to our windows nearly any afternoon, we may see some of them in process. But we shall not be invited to participate. At best, the children will pause for a moment to ask, "Did you play it this way?" Very likely we did not. Each generation plays the old games; every generation plays them in a slightly new way. The present generation would seem to p
PREV.   NEXT  
|<   23   24   25   26   27   28   29   30   31   32   33   34   35   36   37   38   39   40   41   42   43   44   45   46   47  
48   49   50   51   52   53   54   55   56   57   58   59   60   61   62   63   64   65   66   67   68   69   70   71   72   >>   >|  



Top keywords:

children

 
generation
 

Psychical

 
playing
 

manager

 

research

 
laughed
 

acting

 

cryptically

 

father


allotted

 
messages
 

overlap

 

remarked

 

meaning

 

sufficiently

 

understood

 
dilatoriness
 

protests

 

windows


moment

 

invited

 

participate

 

present

 

slightly

 
process
 
distinctly
 

contemporaries

 
engage
 

curtail


played
 

running

 

afternoon

 

stepping

 
jumping
 

shouting

 

details

 

superintend

 
happened
 

chosen


coincided

 
changed
 

question

 

suggested

 

remotely

 
Divided
 

charades

 
bespeak
 

company

 

heartily