g us inflexible, mounted his
horse, and after having ascended the pathway which led to the defile,
disappeared across the heath and sand of the desert.
Under other circumstances, we should have accepted with pleasure the
offer thus made; but we desired to make the shortest possible stay
amongst the Ortous. We were anxious to leave behind us that miserable
country, where our animals were wasting away daily, and where we had
ourselves met with such fatigue and misery. Besides, a Mongol wedding
was no new thing to us. Since we had entered Tartary, we had witnessed
more than once, ceremonies of that kind.
The Mongols marry very young, and always under the influence of the
absolute authority of the parents. This affair, so grave and important,
is initiated, discussed, and concluded, without the two persons most
interested in it, taking the least part in it. Whatever promises of
marriage may take place in youth, or at more advanced age, it is the
parents who always settle the contract, without even speaking to their
children about it. The two future consorts do not know, perhaps never
saw each other. It is only when they are married that they have the
opportunity to inquire whether there is sympathy between their characters
or not.
The daughter never brings any marriage portion. On the contrary, the
young man has to make presents to the family of his bride: and the value
of these presents is seldom left to the generosity of the husband's
parents. Everything is arranged beforehand and set forth in a public
document, with the minutest details. In fact, the matter is less a
marriage present than the price of an object, sold by one party and
bought by the other. The thing is indeed very clearly expressed in their
language; they say, "I have bought for my son the daughter of so and so."
"We have sold our daughter to such and such a family." The marriage
contract is thus simply a contract of sale. There are mediators, who
bargain and haggle, up and down, till at last they come to an agreement.
When it is settled how many horses, oxen, sheep, pieces of linen, pounds
of butter, what quantity of brandy and wheat-flour shall be given to the
family of the bride, the contract is at length drawn up before witnesses,
and the daughter becomes the property of the purchaser. She remains,
however, with her family till the time of the nuptial ceremonies.
When the marriage has been concluded between the mediators, the father
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