"was seen emerging like a rock in the
waves, from which the English cavalry were retreating on every side with
broken ranks, like a repelled tide. 'Hold and halt!' said the Douglas to
his followers; 'we are come too late to aid them; let us not lessen the
victory they have won by affecting to claim a share in it.'" It is the
self-denying nature of this chivalrous deed that I would apply to far
other circumstances. The interfering spirit, which I deprecate, would
come, not to consummate the victory, but to hinder it.
For similar reasons I would have you take care that you do not adopt mere
rules, and seek to impress them rigidly upon others, as if they were
general principles, which must at once be suitable to all mankind. Do
not imagine that your individual threads of experience form a woven
garment of prudence, capable of fitting with exactness any member of the
whole human family.
* * * * *
There are several ungenerous motives, of some subtlety, which hide in the
dark corners of the heart, and stand in the way of benevolence. For
instance, even in good minds, there is apt to lurk some tinge of fear, or
of dislike, at the prospect of an undoubted amelioration of the lot of
others coming too fast, as these good people would say. Indeed, some
persons find it hard to reconcile themselves to the idea of others'
burdens being readily removed, even when they themselves are making
exertions to remove them.
Another feeling to beware of, is that of envy, which, strange as it
seems, may sometimes arise upon the view of that very prosperity, which
the person, feeling envy, has helped to create. The truth is, it is
comparatively easy to avoid being envious of the good fortune which was
established before our time, or which is out of our own sphere: but to be
quite pleased with the good fortune of those whom we recollect in other
circumstances, and who, perhaps, have been accustomed to ask advice or
assistance from us--that is the trial.
Another ungenerous sentiment, similar to the foregoing, and likely at
times to prove a hindrance to benevolent exertion, arises from the
comparison of our own past lot with that of the persons whose condition
is sought to be improved. Most of us have a little tendency to grudge
them this amelioration. We should shudder at the brutality of one, who,
having attained to power, is more cruel because he has suffered much
himself, ("_eo immitior quia to
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