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every day and with all the good faith of which we are possest. It is because they do not ignore their own weaknesses that the men endowed with poise become what one has psychologically termed "forces," that is to say people who are masters of a power that renders them superior to the rest of the world. RESOLUTION After as minute and as honest an examination as we can make of our own actions, it will be of great benefit to make definite resolutions for the morrow. This is a matter of great importance. The timid man, by seriously resolving to perform the actions that he ought and by planning the accomplishment of some definite step, will unconsciously strengthen his own will-power. He will increase it still more by making up his mind to leave no stone unturned to conquer himself. For instance, he proposes to make a certain journey, or to pay a certain call, which he dreads very much, and falls asleep while repeating to himself: "To-morrow I will go there! I will carry the thing through with assurance!" Conceding the magnetic power of words, the acquisition of courage and of confidence are necessary corollaries. Ideas imprest upon the mind at the moment that one is falling asleep develop during the night by a species of incubation, and on the morrow present themselves to us quite naturally in the guise of a duty much less hard to perform than we had imagined. In the case where such a resolution awakens an unpleasant emotion in the hearts of the timid, they should repeat earnestly the sentences that tend to composure and should seek the aid of the means we have indicated for attaining it. PREPARATION In order to strengthen one's resolution it is a good thing every morning to map out one's day, for the purpose of acquiring poise. All one's combinations should be worked out with this valuable conquest in mind. After having committed oneself to a definite plan, one should analyze each one of the proposed steps, carefully taking into account all the peculiarities that are likely to characterize them. If one is to have an interview, one should carefully prepare one's introductory remarks, paying particular attention to one's line of action, to one's method of presentation, and the words upon which one relies to obtain an affirmative reply to one's request. One should take the precaution to have one's speeches mentally prepared in advance, so as to be able to deliver them in such a speed
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