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TALK FIFTEEN. WHAT IS YOUR WORD WORTH?
Everything is measured by some standard of value. Material things are
measured by length, breadth, weight, density, usefulness, or intrinsic
value. Character also has its standard of measurement. Some people are
valued more highly than others, whether in the community, in the church,
or in the nation. People are valued, not for their physical size or
weight, but for their abilities and more especially for their characters.
In a Christian the special thing of value, and the only special thing, is
his character. If one's character is not of a higher and better quality
than that of people in general, one has no right to the name Christian.
The quality of ones character is indicated in various ways. One's words
are generally a clear index to one's character. A person is judged by
them, and his value is reckoned by the reliance that may be placed upon
his word. We know some on whose word we fully rely. If they tell us
anything, we believe them. If they make us a promise, we do not expect it
to he broken. We rely upon them because they have shown by their conduct
that they themselves place a high value upon their own word. Of such
persons it is often said, "If he says it is so, it is true," or, "If he
makes a promise, he will fulfil it." Such men wield a strong influence in
a community. People can easily believe and trust in their character. It is
a sad fact that such individuals are the exception rather than the rule,
even among professed Christians. How many times promises are made only to
be broken or forgotten! This is a grave matter and marks a serious defect
in Christian character. We should never make a promise unless we fully
expect to fulfil it, and we ought to feel under deep obligation to keep
our promise. If we are careless and neglectful of this, it is sure to
lower us in men's esteem, and we shall be cheapened and discredited.
Hasty Promises.
Many times promises are made hastily. The person does not stop to consider
what he really is promising; he does not weigh its meaning. He says, "Yes,
yes, I will"; but later when he thinks the matter over, it looks different
to him. He is sorry that he made the promise, and begins to look for some
way out so that he will not have to fulfil it.
These hasty promises are just as binding as any others. If we ignore them
and do not make our word goo
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