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"to deliver the goods." [Sidenote: Danger of Over-using Head Tone] Some people suggest by the over-use of head tones that they depend altogether on what they _know_ to achieve success. They make the impression that they expect their high degree of _mentality_ to open chances for them to succeed. "They know they know" their business; so when they secure opportunities to demonstrate their capabilities, they emphasize too much what they _know_. They are apt to use the mental tone continually. Perhaps the prospective employer needs a man of exactly such knowledge as is possessed by the candidate he is interviewing. But if when presenting his qualifications the applicant rasps the ears of his hearer for a long time with high-pitched head tones, the listener intuitively becomes prejudiced. He is impressed with the suggestion that the speaker is a "know-it-all" fellow. The employer is likely to turn down his application because of the unskilled tone pitch in which it is made. [Sidenote: Sing-Song Parrot Talk] When a man has talked glibly and fast about superior qualifications he knows he possesses, it dazes him if his exceptional capabilities fail to win him the job for which he is particularly fitted. He cannot comprehend why another applicant who plainly is not so well qualified should be chosen. But his voice has suggested to the employer that everything he said was just "parrot talk." Thousands of bright "parrots" remain failures all their lives for no other reason than their utter inability to get inside the _hearts_ of other men. The ordinary canvasser who trudges from house to house with his "sing-song" patter has grown into the bad habit of using head tones almost exclusively. As a natural reflex of the unpleasant impression he makes with his voice, it is a common experience to have a door slammed in his face. [Sidenote: Getting Around Mental Barrier] The master salesman comprehends that the _mentality_ of a prospect is a barrier to his _emotional_ expression. That is, the mind is an alert sentinel on guard to protect the _heart_ from its own impulses to unthinking action. So the skillful salesman when making his "approach" _goes around_ the mind side of the prospect to the emotional side, where there is no hostile guard. He knows that "the hearts of all men are akin," and that "the hardest heart has soft spots." He realizes it is bad salesmanship to challenge the sentinel mind of the prospect in a mental
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