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matters of _fact_, aids in convincing the _mind_ of the other man because _it is the pitch that fits bare facts_--the tone of pure mentality. [Sidenote: When Mental Tone Should Be Used] This mental, or head tone, is most effective in gaining _attention_, in conveying _information_, in arousing the _perceptive faculties_ of another mind. _Restrict its use to these purposes only._ The mental tone is not pleasing to the ear. It is pitched high. It suggests arguments and disputes. It is the provocative tone of quarrels. So it should be employed most carefully, with every precaution against giving offense by its _insistence_. Avoid its use for long at a time. Its very monotony is apt to irritate. The high pitch suggests a mental challenge to the mind of the other man, and hence arouses his mental tendency to opposition. The unskillful _over-use_ of head tones may ruin a salesman's best opportunity to gain a coveted object. There are times, however, when it is necessary that you should insist--briefly. If you do so _artistically_, and do not persist in the high, mental, rasping tone; but change to the lower, emotive, chest tone very soon after your insistence on the other man's attention, you will not hurt your chances. It is the _continued_ use of the head tone that is to be avoided. [Sidenote: Emotive Pitch] The _emotive_ (chest or heart) pitch dissipates opposition as naturally as the mind tone provokes a quarrel. Even a hot argument can be ended without any lasting ill-feeling if the disputants conclude with hearty expressions of good will for one another. The same words spoken in head tones would increase the antagonism by suggesting sarcasm or insincerity. The resonant chest tone suggests that it comes from the speaker's heart. The _hearer's_ heart makes _his_ mind believe the heart message conveyed by the emotional pitch of the other man's voice. Therefore if you want your ideas to penetrate a man's _heart_, don't aim your tone _high_ at his head. _Lower_ it to the pitch of true friendliness, of comradeship, of human brotherhood. Aim at _his_ breast with _your_ breast tone. Do not fawn or plead, however, when selling ideas of yourself. You can persuade best by suggesting that you have brought all your manhood to render the other man a real service. This suggestion will induce a feeling of _respect_ for you, which will certainly be followed by willingness of the prospect to let you show him you are able
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