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s study of "Jealousy." [413] Jealousy among lower races may be disguised or modified by tribal customs. Thus Rasmussen (_People of the Polar North_, p. 65) says in reference to the Eskimo custom of wife-exchange: "A man once told me that he only beat his wife when she would not receive other men. She would have nothing to do with anyone but him--and that was her only failing!" Rasmussen elsewhere shows that the Eskimo are capable of extreme jealousy. [414] See, e.g., Moll, _Sexualleben des Kindes_, p. 158; cf., Gesell's "Study of Jealousy." [415] Jealousy is notoriously common among drunkards. As K. Birnbaum points out ("Das Sexualleben der Alkokolisten," _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., 1909), this jealousy is, in most cases, more or less well-founded, for the wife, disgusted with her husband, naturally seeks sympathy and companionship elsewhere. Alcoholic jealousy, however, goes far beyond its basis of support in fact, and is entangled with delusions and hallucinations. (See e.g., G. Dumas, "La Logique d'un Dement," _Revue Philosophique_, Feb., 1908; also Stefanowski, "Morbid Jealousy," _Alienist and Neurologist_, July, 1893.) [416] Ellen Key, _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 335. [417] Schrempf points out ("Von Stella zu Klaerchen," _Mutterschutz_, 1906, Heft 7, p. 264) that Goethe strove to show in _Egmont_ that a woman is repelled by the love of a man who knows nothing beyond his love to her, and that it is easy for her to devote herself to the man whose aims lie in the larger world beyond herself. There is profound truth in this view. [418] A discussion on "Platonic friendship" of this kind by several writers, mostly women, whose opinions were nearly equally divided, may be found, for instance, in the _Lady's Realm_, March, 1900. [419] There are no doubt important exceptions. Thus Merimee's famous friendship with Mlle. Jenny Dacquin, enshrined in the _Lettres a une Inconnue_, was perhaps Platonic throughout on Merimee's side, Mlle. Dacquin adapting herself to his attitude. Cf. A. Lefebvre, _La Celebre Inconnue de Merimee_, 1908. [420] The love-letters of all these distinguished persons have been published. Rosa Mayreder (_Zur Kritik der Weiblichkeit_, pp. 229 _et seq._) discusses the question of the humble and absolute manner in which even men of the most masculine and impetuous genius abandon themselves to the inspiration of the beloved woman. The case of the Brownings, who have been termed "the hero and heroin
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