ng commands; don't put a Spanish bit in the children's
mouths to jerk them and torture them.
Be positive, make your promises and orders stick, and the kiddies will
soon know you mean what you say.
These negative "driving me crazy" sentences and attachments to your
commands spell weakness and make you drive, cajole and spin out your
orders and the children hesitate, and are slow to obey.
Let them see your positive side. Let them learn to obey with a "yes,
mamma" spirit and your orders will be less frequent, shorter and they
will be obeyed on the instant.
The kiddies learn to size you up, mamma, and if they see a wobbly,
worried, despondent, unsure attitude in you, they will discount your
threats and make allowances, saying "that's mamma's way."
Don't show your cry side but show your smile side.
Sunday is a great trial day for you, mamma, but don't let your negative
wires get the best of you.
Sing as you make the beds and tidy up; let sunshine in and drive out the
gloom.
Blue Sundays are horror days for the children; you can't expect them to
sit still like older folks. They are full of red blood and active
muscles.
Don't make Sunday a day of punishment to your children. They get their
cue from you. Don't you be negative and cross, and gloomy. It's bad
business for you and all the family.
WALKING
The Best Exercise I Know of
The benefits of walking are so quickly apparent that I hope to get you
to make the start and keep it up for two weeks, and then you will
require no further urging.
In walking there are two things most important to do in order to get the
greatest benefits: first--walk alone; second--walk your natural gait.
So many people tell me they would like to walk all, or part of the way,
between their home and office if they had company.
Company is the very thing you don't want in walking, and there are two
reasons for this: one is if you walk with a friend you will hold
yourself back, or else you will be walking faster than your natural
gait, and in either case it is a conscious effort, and this conscious
effort to a large degree will cause you to lose much of the benefit from
your walk.
The most important reason, however, is that if you walk with a friend
you are sure to talk and thus you are using your nervous energy and
tiring your brain--the very thing you should rest.
Walking gives you physical exercise which is absolutely necessary for
health. It is the best ex
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