16
GOOD COMPANY, 19
FRIENDSHIP, 21
KINDRED HEARTS, 28
CONVERSATION, 30
EXAGGERATION, 34
EGOTISM, 37
GENTLENESS, 44
SISTERLY VIRTUES, 46
HOME, 49
FIRESIDE INFLUENCE, 51
{ THE TEETH, 54
PERSONAL APPEARANCE, { THE HAIR, 57
{ THE HANDS, 59
DRESS, 61
COMPRESSION OF THE LUNGS, 64
LETTER-WRITING, 68
MUSIC, 71
FLOWERS, 73
TIME, 76
NOVEL-READING, 85
FEMALE ROMANCE, 89
BEHAVIOR TO GENTLEMEN, 95
MARRIAGE, 101
MARRIAGE HYMN, 104
FEMALE INFLUENCE, 105
A DIFFICULT QUESTION, 109
EASILY DECIDED, 121
INFLUENCE OF CHRISTIANITY ON WOMAN, 132
IMPORTANCE OF RELIGION TO WOMAN, 137

LADIES' VASE.

POLITENESS.

Politeness, like every thing else in one's character and conduct, should
be based on Christian principle. "Honor all men," says the apostle. This
is the spring of good manners; it strikes at the very root of
selfishness: it is the principle by which we render to all ranks and
ages their due. A respect for your fellow-beings--a reverence for them
as God's creatures and our brethren--will inspire that delicate regard
for their rights and feelings, of which good manners is the sign.

If you have truth--not the truth of policy, but religious truth--your
manners will be sincere. They will have earnestness, simplicity, and
frankness--the best qualities of manners. They will be free from
assumption, pretense, affectation, flattery, and obsequiousness, which
are all incompatible with sincerity. If you have sincerity, you will
choose to appear no other, nor better, than you are--to dwell in a true
light.

We have often insisted, that the Bible contains the only rules necessary
in the study of politeness. Or, in other words, that those who are the
real disciple