FREE BOOKS

Author's List




PREV.   NEXT  
|<   62   63   64   65   66   67   68   69   70   71   72   73   74   75   76   77   78   79   80   81   82   83   84   85   86  
87   88   89   90   91   92   93   94   95   96   97   98   99   100   101   102   103   104   105   106   107   108   109   110   111   >>   >|  
ct her own natural and unregulated--her savage will, we might say--to the customs and habits of civilized society. If educated into a moral being, she learns to subject her will, not to the idea of what is agreeable or useful, but to the idea of what is simply right. If educated into a religious being, she learns to submit her will to the Divine Will, and in her relation to God, she first becomes freed from the bonds of all finite and transitory things, and attains to the region where perfect obedience and perfect freedom coincide.[24] A woman who is virtuous, so to speak, with regard to the first, might be characterized as polite; she who is virtuous in regard to the second, as conscientious; and she who is virtuous in regard to the third, as humble. She who is all these may be said to have been thoroughly educated as to her Will. The culture of the Will may be, then, 1. Social, 2. Moral, 3. Religious. In this realm, as in that of the intellect, the process of education consists in developing a spiritual being out of a natural being. It is the clothing, or rather, the informing of the natural with the spiritual. The part of education which relates to the social life is almost entirely given to the parents; and generally, from the great demands which business makes on the father, it falls almost wholly into the hands of the mother. It is she who must train the little girl into habits of neatness, of obedience, of order, of regularity, of punctuality--small virtues, but the foundation stones of a moral character, and into habits of unselfishness and of politeness. _Social Culture._--Neatness in person, as in dress, is not natural to the woman of a savage tribe, neither is it a characteristic of hermits. It is the product of civilized society. It is a recognition, in some sense, of the equality of others to one's self, a bending of the undisciplined will to the pleasure and satisfaction of others. Like all other habits, it becomes, in time, agreeable to the person who practises it, but the first training into it, is a painful struggle. Do we not all remember that in the picture painted by the melancholy Jacques of the shadow side of human existence, the "_shining_ morning face" of the child was not forgotten as one of the shadow tints of that stage of life? The education into habits of neatness is almost entirely in the hands of the mother or of her deputies. She herself then must be thoroughly educated into
PREV.   NEXT  
|<   62   63   64   65   66   67   68   69   70   71   72   73   74   75   76   77   78   79   80   81   82   83   84   85   86  
87   88   89   90   91   92   93   94   95   96   97   98   99   100   101   102   103   104   105   106   107   108   109   110   111   >>   >|  



Top keywords:
habits
 

educated

 

natural

 

virtuous

 

education

 
regard
 

obedience

 

person

 

spiritual

 

perfect


agreeable

 

mother

 

civilized

 

learns

 
society
 

neatness

 

Social

 
shadow
 
savage
 

wholly


characteristic
 

hermits

 
product
 

Culture

 

stones

 

foundation

 

virtues

 

punctuality

 

character

 

regularity


politeness

 
unselfishness
 
Neatness
 

existence

 

shining

 

Jacques

 

painted

 

melancholy

 

morning

 

deputies


forgotten

 

picture

 

remember

 

bending

 
undisciplined
 

pleasure

 

equality

 
satisfaction
 
painful
 

struggle