sirable acquaintance upon a
friend, while, at the same time, the individual asking such a favor
should be thoroughly convinced that he is entitled to the privilege.
Letters of introduction, where they are between ladies, may be left by
the caller, together with her card. She must not, however, ask to see
the lady of the house, who is expected, shortly after the receipt of
such a missive, to call in person, and should endeavor, during her
stay, to include her in a portion of her social plans for the season;
circumstances, of course, governing the extent to which these
attentions should be carried.
A gentleman, in presenting a letter of introduction to a lady, may, if
she should be at home, make his first call when sending in his letter
and card, whereon should be designated his hotel or place of
residence. If this should not be the case, she will answer by sending
her card with her reception day engraved upon it, or, if that be too
far distant, a note, stating when he may call, should be sent; it may
also be expected that her husband, son or brother will call upon him
and offer what civilities are at command. Even should neither card nor
note be sent, it is still permitted him to call once more. His
responsibility ceases here, and if no attention follows he may
conclude his friend has overstepped the limits of a slight
acquaintance in giving him the letter of introduction.
A Letter of Recommendation
to some position or appointment is very much the same as one of
introduction. Its reception, however, does not necessitate social
attentions. The form is very simple:
644 BROADWAY, NEW YORK, November 22, 189-.
DEAR MR. HILL:
Recognizing, as I do, that your position in commercial
circles will give your influence great weight, I take it
upon myself to introduce to you Mr. Philip Palmer, a
graduate of one of the best business colleges in New York
City, and a young man of integrity and capacity. Any
recommendations which you can grant him will be looked upon
as a favor by
Your friend,
MILTON JONES.
TO WILLIAM HILL,
Elmira, N.Y.
A general letter of introduction, intended for the perusal of
strangers, would read somewhat as follows:
_To whom it may concern_:
This is to certify that the bearer of this letter, Miss
Marietta Hope, was graduated with high honors from Vassar
College, and has since taught in the schools
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