entleman to call upon a lady unless he has
first received permission to do so.
It is not proper for a gentleman to wear his overshoes in the
drawing-room.
[Illustration: A MORNING WALK.]
Children or young people should never monopolize the most desirable
positions and most comfortable chairs.
No gentleman will smoke while walking, riding or driving with a lady,
or while speaking to her in the street. Sometimes, at informal summer
resorts, there is a little latitude allowed here.
If a dinner party is given in honor of a lady, it is the host's place
to go in to dinner first, taking in the lady in whose honor the dinner
is given. Furthermore, it is proper, under some circumstances, for the
hostess to go in to dinner last with the husband of the lady whom the
host is escorting.
It is proper to help all the ladies, including those of the household,
before any gentleman is helped, no matter how distinguished a person
he may be.
First Attentions for Ladies.
When the visitors are gentlemen, and only a mother and daughter are at
the table, the maid ought first to serve the mother, then the daughter
and last the gentlemen. If the mother serves tea at luncheon she helps
the daughter first, and after her the men guests. The rule is always
that a lady takes precedence.
On leaving the table at a public place, such as a restaurant or hotel
dining-room, the lady precedes the gentleman.
Apples are pared, and eaten in small quarters, at dessert. Grapes are
plucked from their stems, and the pulp squeezed out in the mouth,
while the fingers hold the skins, which are laid at one side of the
plate. Bananas are peeled, cut in thin slices, and eaten with a fork.
Peaches are eaten after paring, with a silver knife and fork. Oranges
are skinned by cutting in quarters, or left whole, and the sections
are then pulled apart, and eaten, rejecting the seeds into the hand.
Celery is usually dipped into the salt-cellar, and eaten from the
stalk, or it can be cut on the plate, in small bits, and eaten with a
fork. When dining at a hotel you can partake of the side dishes on the
same plate that meat and potato have been served, or ask the waiter to
change your plate, as you prefer.
When fried eggs are used for a breakfast dish, they are put upon your
plate, from the side dish; but in many homes, eggs are baked in small
dishes, each person being served with a dish, which should be well
buttered before putting in the egg to be
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