ty usually begins about nine P.M. It is supposed to end
about midnight unless the devotees prefer to remain later. Some, who
do not care for this amusement retire immediately after supper.

When to leave at a ball is a very elastic rule which varies to suit
the circumstances of the case. To leave as soon after supper as may be
or to stay until the ball is actually over, are equally correct
courses to follow. Half past one is a very good time to depart. Here
in this busy country where the gallants of the evening will be the
business men of the morrow, earlier hours are usual than among the
leisure classes of the Old World.

In retiring from a large party it is sufficient to bow politely when
expressing the pleasure you have received. And if the hostess or host
offer the hand, shake it cordially, but not too roughly.

An after call is required the same as after a ball or dinner party.

RECEPTIONS.

For informal receptions, invitations are most frequently written on
the left hand corner of the hostess's visiting card: MRS. CHARLES
GREY, Thursday, from five to eight o'clock.

At an evening reception, the lady should be dressed in handsome home
toilet, and receive standing. If several ladies receive together,
their cards should be enclosed with the invitation. The simplicity of
the occasion leaves the hostess the more time to devote to the
enjoyment of her guests. Music, both vocal and instrumental, is a
great addition to an evening reception.

Refreshments are generally served informally. The table should be set
tastily in the dining-room, and supplied with coffee or chocolate at
one end and a tea service at the other. Besides these, daintily
prepared sandwiches, buns, cakes, ices and fruits are served. If the
reception is very select, and the number of guests small, a servant
presents a tray with tea, sugar and cream, while another follows with
the simple refreshments that should accompany it.

A wedding reception, or a very elaborate evening reception, of course
admits of much more ceremony, as well as more substantial
refreshments, than small entertainments.

Ladies attend evening receptions in _demi-toilette_, with or without
bonnets, and gentlemen in full morning dress.

[Illustration: RECEPTION TO A DISTINGUISHED GUEST.]

Invitations to evening receptions, lawn or musical parties are
informal, but require an answer, as it is agreeable to every hostess
to know the number of her expected guests.

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