ave any objection to doing so.
6. Bread should be broken. To butter a large piece of bread and then
bite it, as children do, is something the knowing never do.
7. In eating game or poultry do not touch the bones with your fingers.
To take a bone in the fingers for the purpose of picking it, is looked
upon as being very inelegant.
8. Never use your own knife or fork to help another. Use rather the
knife or fork of the person you help.
9. Never send your knife or fork, or either of them, on your plate
when you send for second supply.
10. Never turn your elbows out when you use your knife and fork. Keep
them close to your sides.
11. Whenever you use your fingers to convey anything to your mouth or
to remove anything from the mouth, let it be the fingers of the left
hand.
12. Tea, coffee, chocolate and the like are drank from the cup and
never from the saucer.
13. In masticating your food, keep your mouth shut; otherwise you will
make a noise that will be very offensive to those around you.
14. Don't attempt to talk with a full mouth. One thing at a time is as
much as any man can do well.
15. Should you find a worm or insect in your food, say nothing about
it.
16. If a dish is distasteful to you, decline it, and without comment.
17. Never put bones or bits of fruit on the table cloth. Put them on
the side of your plate.
18. Do not hesitate to take the last piece on the dish, simply because
it is the last. To do so is to directly express the fear that you
would exhaust the supply.
19. If you would be what you would like to be--abroad, take care that
you _are_ what you would like to be--at home.
20. Avoid picking your teeth at the table if possible; but if you
must, do it, it you can, where you are not observed.
21. If an accident of any kind soever should occur during dinner, the
cause being who or what it may, you should not seem to note it.
22. Should you be so unfortunate as to overturn or to break anything,
you should make no apology. You might let your regret appear in your
face, but it would not be proper to put it in words.
[Illustration: A PARLOR RECITATION.]
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SOCIAL DUTIES.
Man In Society is like a flower,
Blown in its native bed. 'Tis there alone
His faculties expanded in full bloom
Shine out, there only reach their proper use.
--COWPER.
The primal duties shine aloft like stars;
The charities that soothe,
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