on making the introduction; otherwise, such a wish would
appear to be either puerile or sycophantic, thus the request might meet
with a refusal, and the proffered acquaintanceship be declined.

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=When Introductions are made between Ladies=, an unmarried lady should
be introduced to a married lady, unless the unmarried lady is of a
higher rank than the married lady, when the rule is reversed.

The correct formula in use when making introductions is "Mrs. X----,
Lady Z.," thus mentioning the name of the lady of lowest rank first, as
she is the person introduced to the lady of highest rank, "Mrs. X----,
Lady Z.," is all that need be said on the occasion by the person making
the introduction. When the ladies are of equal rank it is immaterial
which name is mentioned first; but there generally exists sufficient
difference in the social position of the two ladies to give a slight
distinction in favour of the one or of the other, which the person
making the introduction should take into consideration.

When the introduction has been made, the ladies should bow to each
other, and either lady should make a slight remark.

It is not usual for ladies on being first introduced to each other to
shake hands, but only to bow; but there are very many exceptions to this
rule.

When one lady is of higher rank than the other, should she offer to
shake hands, it would be a compliment and a mark of friendliness on her
part.

When a person introduces two intimate friends of his or hers to each
other, they would be expected to shake hands, instead of bowing only.

The relations of an engaged couple should, on being introduced, shake
hands with both bride and bridegroom elect, as should the intimate
friends of an engaged couple; as also should the relations of the two
families on being introduced to each other.

It is the privilege of the lady to be the first to offer to shake hands,
in every case, when a gentleman is introduced to her.

A lady should shake hands with every one introduced to her in her own
house--that is to say, whether the person is brought by a mutual friend,
or is present by invitation obtained through a mutual friend.

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=At Dinner-parties=, both small and large, the hostess should use her
own discretion as to the introductions she thinks proper to make. It is
not customary to make general introductions at a dinner-party; but in