and is
prepared. She bides her time when like the prodigal, he will surely
return, perhaps mentally and morally purified and a wiser, if a sadder
man.
If a woman loves her husband and desires to keep him for herself and
family, she must train herself for her many varied duties including
attractiveness, which is a real duty.
If she thinks that some other woman has her husband's affection, her
thoughts help her to make this so. If she voices the suspicion she
fertilizes the soil and aids the growth or she may crystallize and give
form to rumor.
Even if there is ground for such a suspicion the up-to-date wife would
not admit it to herself or voice the fact.
"Man's love is of man's life a part, 'tis woman's whole existence."
The inexperienced wives forget that they cannot satisfy every mood of a
man without study or effort, unless they are remarkably gifted. Many a
wife has neglected her mind, body and powers and when some woman with
developed powers enters her marriage orbit, she flies off at a tangent,
admits defeat and gets a divorce without putting forth an effort to win
back the husband who is often worth saving.
It is humiliating to admit, "I have lost my husband!" A wife should
never admit it, even in thought.
Many a man does not intend to stray and loves his wife but he has been
carried off his feet just for the moment.
There are Keeley cures to save men, why not husband cures to save homes,
especially those with children whose futures are at stake.
I know several colored women who have had good ground for doubting
their husband's fidelity who have never allowed the men to know that
they have doubted them.
One wife made a study of "the woman in the case" and threw her and her
husband together in her home until the man was satiated. In the meantime
she studied herself and the woman to see what it was that attracted her
husband. Then she went into training for the match--war--if it should
come to that--in attractiveness, and she won without telling her secret.
If a wife will give a man time and will play the attractive game as she
did before marriage, her husband will soon turn his face homeward, and
will wonder what the other charm was.
Many men are attracted by youth alone and after youth has flown they are
not interested. A wife should study the fancies of her husband if she
desires to hold him, and then begin work upon herself, to hold her
youthful looks.
Wives must prepare for the da
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