one who uses silly and senseless
exclamations is not far away from him. One of the marks of a gentleman
is his complete mastery of himself under the most trying and aggravating
circumstances.
These are but few of the many "don'ts" which it seems necessary to
repeat in works of this kind. For a more extended catalogue of social
and grammatical sins, the reader is referred to that excellent book The
Verbalist, by Alfred Ayres, and the clever little _brochure_ Don't. A
careful study of these will assist him much in reviewing elementary
questions, the knowledge of which was taken for granted by the author of
the Complete Bachelor.
INDEX.
ACCEPTANCE, invitations, 46-48.
Admission to clubs, rules for, 127-129.
Admission, visitors to clubs, 131, 132.
Advice, general, for unclassified occasions, 195, 196.
Afternoon calls, etiquette of, 43-45.
Afternoon dress, when worn, 12, 13.
Afternoon tea, 45.
Afternoon wedding, 184, 185.
Aisle, church and theater, going up, 5.
Almonds, salted, 69.
Alpine hats, 28.
Amateur accomplishments, 199.
Announcement cards, 176.
Announcement, engagement, method of, 169.
Answers, Assembly and Patriarchs, 48.
Answers, ball invitations, 48.
Answers, committee invitations, 48.
Answers, dinner invitations, 48.
Answers, form of, 46-48.
Answers, general, 48.
Artichokes, method of eating, 70.
Asparagus, method of eating, 70.
Assembly balls, etiquette of, 48, 105-110.
BACHELOR.--For all functions with this title, see various heads of
chapters.
Bachelor's farewell dinner, 181-184.
Badminton, 148.
Bag, shoe, 30.
Bag, traveling, what to take on a visit from Friday to Monday, 91-93.
Bag, traveling, voyage long, 160, 161.
Ball, Assembly, 105-110.
Ball, Charity, 103.
Ball, general etiquette of, 48, 102-110.
Ball, Inauguration, 104.
Ball, public, 48, 103, 104.
Ball, supper at, 110, 111.
Bath, bachelor's, 17, 18.
Bathing, 156.
Bath, Turkish, 22.
Beard, care of, 19.
Best man, dress for, 184.
Best man, etiquette for, 180-182, 184-187.
Bicycling, 144, 145.
Billiards, 157, 158.
Boating, 156.
Bolting food, 62.
Boots, 12, 13, 28-30, 37.
Boots, care of, 28-30.
Boots, riding, 142.
Boots, russet, 13, 42, 147, 155.
Bowing, etiquette of, 2-6, 9.
Bowling, 147.
Bridegroom, 178-180.
Bridegroom, dress of, 184.
Bridegroom, expenses of, 177, 178.
Bridegroom, presents to bride and wedding party, 179, 180.
Brushes, 19-26, 28-31.
Brushes, clothes, 25, 26, 28-31.
Brushes, hair, 19, 22.
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