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ty and frequently in a dangerous operation. There are, therefore, ample reasons for watchfulness and care on the part of the growing girl. SYMPTOMS OF MENSTRUATION.--After menstruation is established there should be no actual pain at each period. There are, however, certain undefined feelings,--premonitory symptoms,--which may be explained in the following terms:--A day or two before the date on which the menstruation is expected, the girl will appreciate that "her sickness" is coming. She will not, or should not, complain of pain, but will state that she has a bearing down feeling, is a little more nervous than usual, has no desire to go into company, and wants to be more or less her own entertainer. The "sick" period usually lasts four or five days. The second day is the most important. MENSTRUATION SHOULD NOT BE ACCOMPANIED WITH PAIN.--If any actual pain accompanies menstruation, either before or after it is established, the mother should at once take the daughter to the family physician. Menstruation is a natural, physiological act and should not be accompanied with actual distress or pain. It is astonishing how many mothers will allow their daughters to suffer needlessly, for months and years, because of the mistaken idea that "since the pain is there, it must be," or because she--the mother--suffered, so also must the daughter suffer. There is no more unfortunate mistake, and many a girl's health and happiness has been blasted because of this misbelief. The cause of the pain is, in a vast majority of the cases, a very simple one, and can be removed in a very brief time. Should the menstrual period last too long, be too frequent, or be in any way not what it should be, consult your physician. If you are not sure of "what it should be," or if you have any doubt, ask your doctor. Don't let any false pride or feeling of modesty on your part, or on the part of your daughter, dictate your policy under such circumstances. Don't take the advice of your friends or neighbors in a matter so vital. It is too important, and they are not qualified to "guess" any more than you are. Don't, if you have any respect for yourself, or love for your child, begin dosing her with the advertised patent medicines and "Female Regulators" for which so much is claimed, and which seem to "just suit" your daughter's case at this particular time. Take her to the doctor, whose advice you value (or you should not have him as a family physici
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