in the conception.
"Men who are often deceived in allowing themselves to feel a sorrow which
is only based on the longings of sentimentality become pessimists quickly
and deny the existence of deep and enduring affection judged from its
superior expression.
"This superior expression of sentiment is freed from all personality and
such judgment which differentiates it from other sentiments.
"If we wished to appeal to common sense we should acknowledge, too often,
that in the search for expansion we have only recognized the opportunity
to satisfy the inclination which urges us to seek for pleasure.
"Sentiment reasons, and is capable of devotion. Sentimentality excludes
reflective thought and ignores generosity.
"We are capable of sacrificing ourselves for sentiment.
"Sentimentality exacts the sacrifice of others.
"Therefore, profiting by the principles already developed, he who
cultivates common sense will never fail to reason in the following
manner:
"Opening the symbolic fan, he will encounter, after perfection, the
memory which will suggest to him the recollections of personal and
strange experiences and he will record this fact: abegation is rarely
encountered.
"The inclination of our thoughts will suggest to us the difficulties
there are in searching for it.
"Deduction will acquaint us with the temerity of this exaction, and
precaution will attract our thoughts to the possibility of suffering
which could proceed from disillusion.
"Following this, reasoning and judgment will intervene in order to hasten
the conclusion formulated by common sense.
"It follows then that, abnegation being so rare, common sense indicates
to me that it would be imprudent for me to allow my happiness to rest
upon the existence of a thing so exceptional.
"For this reason this sentimental defect will find common sense armed
against this eventuality.
"There is another form or sentimentality not less common.
"It is that which extends itself to all the circumstances of life and
transforms true pity into a false sensibility, the exaggeration of which
deteriorates the true value of things.
"Those who give publicity to this form of sentiment are agitated (or
imagine themselves to be agitated) as profoundly on the most futile of
pretexts as for the most important cause.
"They do not think to ask themselves if their ardor is merited; also
every such experience, taking out of them something of their inner
selves, l
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