FREE BOOKS

Author's List




PREV.   NEXT  
|<   44   45   46   47   48   49   50   51   52   53   54   55   56   57   58   59   60   61   62   63   64   65   66   67   >>  
nstead of knives and forks. Why? Ask any of them. The reply you will probably get is, "Oh, it doesn't taste the same when eaten with knives and forks!" And the strange part about it is that it is really true. "But," you say, "chopsticks are so difficult to use!" Not at all! You just need a little practice. Even knives and forks are difficult for beginners to manage. You would know that if you had watched as many beginners (adults) try to use them as I have. "No, but you can't cut anything with them!" Of course you can't. The kitchen is the place for cutting up food. To serve a slab of meat on a plate, and expect the eater to saw off pieces with a dull knife--it's utterly barbarous! Chinese food is properly prepared, bite-size, in the kitchen. "Oh? But what about soup or gravy? You can't eat _them_ with chopsticks!" Quite true; neither can you eat them with knife and fork. Chinese eat soup with a spoon, or drink it from a bowl. "Well, chopsticks are awkward, in any case!" Awkward? What are you talking about? They are just like pincers--you nip a bite and pick it up daintily, instead of spearing, or shoveling, as you do with a fork. It's amazing how hard it is for an American (I won't speak for other nationalities!) to come to the place where he will appreciate the fact that the ways of people in other lands are in many cases better for them than our ways would be. If you are going to the foreign field in order to teach "the American way of life," you had better stay at home. In saying this I do not mean that Americans do not have some skills that it might be advantageous for the people on some foreign mission fields to learn. But any missionary who has the feeling that his ways of doing things are better just because they are "civilized" ways, or "American" ways, or just his own ways, is heading for trouble. When I first went to China I thought I had no feeling of race superiority. Then an incident occurred that showed me I was not as humble as I had thought. It was at the Chinese New Year season. Chinese New Year is the time of preparing all sorts of special foods, and frequently at that time some of the Christian women would send us a bowl of this, or a plate of that. There was a neighborly feeling about it all that warmed my heart. Then one year a fairly wealthy Christian woman, who had just recently moved to our city, sent her servant over with a gift of a different kind. It was not food this time, but
PREV.   NEXT  
|<   44   45   46   47   48   49   50   51   52   53   54   55   56   57   58   59   60   61   62   63   64   65   66   67   >>  



Top keywords:

Chinese

 
American
 

knives

 
chopsticks
 

feeling

 

foreign

 
people
 

thought

 

kitchen

 

beginners


Christian

 
difficult
 

Americans

 

recently

 

skills

 

mission

 

fields

 
advantageous
 

missionary

 

wealthy


servant

 

incident

 

occurred

 

superiority

 

showed

 
season
 
preparing
 

special

 
humble
 

frequently


neighborly
 

civilized

 

things

 

warmed

 
heading
 

trouble

 

fairly

 

adults

 
watched
 

manage


expect

 
cutting
 

practice

 

nstead

 

strange

 
pieces
 

spearing

 
shoveling
 

amazing

 

daintily