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men" may be gathered from many maxims in his volume like the following (the references being to the pages of Burnell and Hopkins's version): "This is the nature of women, to seduce men here" (40); "One should not be seated in a secluded place with a mother, sister, or daughter; the powerful host of the senses compels even a wise man" (41). "No act is to be done according to (her) own will by a young girl, a young woman, or even by an old woman, though in (their own) houses." "In her childhood (a girl) should be under the will of her father; in (her) youth, of (her) husband; her husband being dead, of her sons; a woman should never enjoy her own will" (130). "Though of bad conduct or debauched, or even devoid of good qualities, a husband must always be worshipped like a god by a good wife." "For women there is no separate sacrifice, nor vow, nor even fast; if a woman obeys her husband, by that she is exalted in heaven" (131). "Day and night should women be kept by the male members of the family in a state of dependence" (245).... "Women being weak creatures, and having no share in the _mantras_, are falsehood itself" (247). Quite in the spirit of these ordinances of the great Manu are the directions for wives given in the _Padma Purana_, one of the books of highest authority, whose rules are, as Dubois informs us (316), kept up in full vigor to this day. A wife, we read therein, must regard her husband as a god, though he be a very devil. She must laugh if he laughs, eat after him, abstain from food which _he_ dislikes, burn herself after his death. If he has another wife she must not interfere, must always keep her eyes on her master, ready to receive his commands; she must never be gloomy or discontented in his presence; and though he abuse or even beat her she must return only meek and soothing words. [269] In Calcutta nearly one-half the females--42,824 out of 98,627--were widows. In India in general one-fifth of the women (or, excluding the Mohammedans, one-third) are widows. [270] _Journal of the National Indian Assoc._, 1881, 624-30. [271] Ploss-Bartels, I., 385-87; Lamairesse, 18, 95, XX., etc. [272] Here again we must guard against the naive error of benevolent observers of confounding chastity with an assumption of modest behavior. In describing the streets of Delhi Ida Pfeiffe
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