). The roast should be carved away from
the table. Plenty of fresh vegetables should be prepared, that being
one of the privileges of country life. Delightfully fresh salads are
also at command of the suburban householder; and if the dining-room be
cool and large, and therewith the grace be given of a beautiful view,
what greater gift can the gods grant!
Let the housekeeper forbear to serve hot puddings or heavy pastries.
Fruit tarts, the freshest of fruits with great glass pitchers of
country cream, cold custards, gelatine creams of all kinds and ice
cream are always satisfactory; and many substitute for the heavy roast
the lighter dishes of broiled fish, chicken, or chops. A cold boiled
ham on the sideboard adds another dish to the board.
Etiquette of Card Playing and Games.
There is a certain etiquette to be observed in playing all social
games. In card-playing especially this is a necessity. In the first
place, it is the hostess who proposes the game. In the second, no one
who refuses should be urged to join in the amusement. They may have
conscientious scruples, and respect should be shown their principles.
Unless, however, this be the reason, no one should refuse to play from
mere caprice when their presence is required to make up a table.
New packs of cards should be provided by the hostess. Playing for
money, even the smallest amount, should be strictly avoided. It is
unfit for the home parlor.
Those who do not understand playing should not join a set unless
especially urged, as their ignorance is apt to spoil the pleasure of
the others. The fingers should not be wet to deal the cards. Partners
should never exchange signs. Let every one play his best and not act
indifferent to the game.
Do not talk on all manner of topics; it disturbs those who enjoy the
game.
Do not criticise, nor hurry other players.
Never lose temper over a game.
To cheat is extremely ill-bred.
If you have a poor partner manifest no annoyance.
Never reflect upon the playing of your opponents.
Those who have played together so much that they understand one
another's play should not be partners in general company.
Never manifest anger at defeat, nor undue exultation at winning.
These rules, many of them, apply to all other social games, both
outdoors and in.
Outdoor Amusements.
Coaching parties are delightful. They give much latitude for gay,
pretty costumes, and there are few brighter pictures than that
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