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his brother may not be good for him. The training that will give one child self-confidence will make a little tyrant of another; what would render one merely amenable to control might make a coward of another. So you see, my dear, that a mother needs to have great knowledge of the laws of mind and great insight in the applying of those laws to the particular cases she has in hand." "It really seems, mamma, as if girls ought to study all those things before they marry." "Indeed they ought, but I fear they never will until they come to have a clearer idea of the value and importance of the mother's work. When they realize that the great and lasting work of the world is done in the homes, by the mothers, with their little children, then we shall have men demanding that girls shall be prepared for that important work by previous education. "There is another way, too, in which women are given great power over the destiny of the world, and that is through heredity." "What does that word mean, mother? I have heard it very often, but people speak as if it were something undesirable." "Heredity means the passing on of traits or talents from parents to children. Now, your eyes are like papa's. They are a part of your heredity from him. You have other features like him, and you have many of his traits. It has been easy to teach you to be orderly because you have inherited his love of order. Then, too, you have many of my characteristics. My hair, my love of music, my quick temper." Helen looked at her mother somewhat in surprise. "Do you mean, mamma, that I have a quick temper because you had one?" "I certainly do; and if I had known, when I was of your age, what I know now, I might have given you a different disposition." "Will my children have a temper because I have one?" "There will be a greater probability of their having quick tempers because you have one." "How can I help it, if I got my temper from you and just passed it on to them? Certainly I am not to blame." "Many people excuse themselves for their faults in just that way; but that is to give evil greater power than good, and we don't believe in that, you know. Each one has the power to make himself over, and in the process he may change the direction of the inheritance of his children." "You mean that if I overcome my temper, my children will not be so likely to have tempers?" "Yes, by controlling yourself you will have given them great
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