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tunes. 222.--Few persons on the first approach of age do not show wherein their body, or their mind, is beginning to fail. 223.--Gratitude is as the good faith of merchants: it holds commerce together; and we do not pay because it is just to pay debts, but because we shall thereby more easily find people who will lend. 224.--All those who pay the debts of gratitude cannot thereby flatter themselves that they are grateful. 225.--What makes false reckoning, as regards gratitude, is that the pride of the giver and the receiver cannot agree as to the value of the benefit. ["The first foundation of friendship is not the power of conferring benefits, but the equality with which they are received, and may be returned."--Junius's Letter To The King.] 226.--Too great a hurry to discharge of an obligation is a kind of ingratitude. 227.--Lucky people are bad hands at correcting their faults; they always believe that they are right when fortune backs up their vice or folly. ["The power of fortune is confessed only by the miserable, for the happy impute all their success to prudence and merit."--Swift, Thoughts On Various Subjects] 228.--Pride will not owe, self-love will not pay. 229.--The good we have received from a man should make us excuse the wrong he does us. 230.--Nothing is so infectious as example, and we never do great good or evil without producing the like. We imitate good actions by emulation, and bad ones by the evil of our nature, which shame imprisons until example liberates. 231.--It is great folly to wish only to be wise. 232.--Whatever pretext we give to our afflictions it is always interest or vanity that causes them. 233.--In afflictions there are various kinds of hypocrisy. In one, under the pretext of weeping for one dear to us we bemoan ourselves; we regret her good opinion of us, we deplore the loss of our comfort, our pleasure, our consideration. Thus the dead have the credit of tears shed for the living. I affirm 'tis a kind of hypocrisy which in these afflictions deceives itself. There is another kind not so innocent because it imposes on all the world, that is the grief of those who aspire to the glory of a noble and immortal sorrow. After Time, which absorbs all, has obliterated what sorrow they had, they still obstinately obtrude their tears, their sighs their groans, they wear a solemn face, and try to persuade others by all their acts, that the
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