persons cannot be sincere.
317.--'Tis a small misfortune to oblige an ungrateful man; but it is
unbearable to be obliged by a scoundrel.
318.--We may find means to cure a fool of his folly, but there are none
to set straight a cross-grained spirit.
319.--If we take the liberty to dwell on their faults we cannot
long preserve the feelings we should hold towards our friends and
benefactors.
320.--To praise princes for virtues they do not possess is but to
reproach them with impunity.
["Praise undeserved is satire in disguise," quoted by Pope from a poem
which has not survived, "The Garland," by Mr. Broadhurst. "In some cases
exaggerated or inappropriate praise becomes the most severe satire."--
Scott, Woodstock.]
321.--We are nearer loving those who hate us, than those who love us
more than we desire.
322.--Those only are despicable who fear to be despised.
323.--Our wisdom is no less at the mercy of Fortune than our goods.
324.--There is more self-love than love in jealousy.
325.--We often comfort ourselves by the weakness of evils, for which
reason has not the strength to console us.
326.--Ridicule dishonours more than dishonour itself.
["No," says a commentator, "Ridicule may do harm, but it cannot
dishonour; it is vice which confers dishonour."]
327.--We own to small faults to persuade others that we have not great
ones.
328.--Envy is more irreconcilable than hatred.
329.--We believe, sometimes, that we hate flattery --we only dislike the
method.
["{But} when I tell him he hates flatter{ers}, He says he does, being
then most flattered." Shakespeare, Julius Caesar {,Act II, Scene I,
Decius}.]
330.--We pardon in the degree that we love.
331.--It is more difficult to be faithful to a mistress when one is
happy, than when we are ill-treated by her.
[Si qua volet regnare diu contemnat amantem.--Ovid, Amores, ii. 19.]
332.--Women do not know all their powers of flirtation.
333.--Women cannot be completely severe unless they hate.
334.--Women can less easily resign flirtations than love.
335.--In love deceit almost always goes further than mistrust.
336.--There is a kind of love, the excess of which forbids jealousy.
337.--There are certain good qualities as there are senses, and those
who want them can neither perceive nor understand them.
338.--When our hatred is too bitter it places us below those whom we
hate.
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