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begins. It includes the whole region over which politeness should extend, as well as a large portion of the territories over which the fine arts hold their sway. Those lighter and more shifting features which elude the grasp of the moralist, and escape the pencil of the historian, though they impress upon every age a countenance and expression of its own, it is her undoubted province to survey. Consequently, if not for the "Troublous storms that toss The private state, and render life unsweet," yet for whatever of elegance or simplicity is wanting in the intercourse of society, for all that is cumbrous in its proceedings, for any bad taste, and much for any coarseness that it tolerates, woman, as European manners are constituted, is exclusively responsible. The habits of daily intercourse represent her faults and virtues as naturally as a shadow is cast by the sun, or the image of the tree that overhangs the lake is reflected from its undisturbed and silent waters. Where the desire of wealth and respect for rank engross an excessive share of her thoughts, conversation will be insipid; and instead of that, "nature _ondoyante_," that disposition to please and be pleased, which is the essence of good nature and the foundation of good taste--instead of frankness and urbanity, youth will engraft on its real ignorance the dulness of affected stupidity--will assume an air of selfish calculation--of arrogance at one time and servility at another--debased itself, and debasing all around it. When, on the contrary, whatever may be their real sentiments, the external demeanour of men to each other is such as benevolence, gratitude, and equity would dictate--and we do mean this phrase to include Russian manners--where, whatever may be the principles that ferment within, the surface of society is brilliant and harmonious--where, if the better politeness which dwells in the heart be wanting, the imitation of it which springs from the head is habitual--women are entitled to the praise of exact taste and skilful discrimination. There are women whom the world elevates, only afterwards the more effectually to humble. For a time the best and wisest submit to their caprices, study their humour, are governed by their wishes--every one avoids as a crime the slightest appearance of collision with any motive that, for the moment, it may suit their purpose to entertain--a smile upon their face is hailed with rapture, any fain
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