the same. And the world
does not so much need a few heroines, as it needs a large number of
good common-place women. There is not a home in the whole of our land
but would be the brighter and better for any number of these women, as
mothers, wives, daughters, aunts, cousins, or servants. The millennium
will have come when all our women are virtuous, when they who are the
very chief over the home-loving peoples are pure, modest, true-hearted,
honourable, dignified, devoted, and, in a word, virtuous. But if any
one is in doubt as to how these good qualities are to be obtained, let
them know that God can give them to one as well as another. They come
in answer to prayer; and those women who steal away sometimes to their
chambers, and there pour out their souls in earnest entreaty to Him
from whom every perfect gift must come, are the women who bring serene
faces into the family circle, and pleasant smiles to dissipate the
gloom. These are the women who will be patient among irritating
circumstances, who will give the soft answer that turneth away wrath,
who will never make man's care the greater, but who will hold weary
heads to their bosoms, and prove what comforters and helpmates they can
be. Such women may all who wish to claim sisterhood with Grace
Darling, become.
"She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms."
Among the many monitors which speak to the women of the present day,
there is one to which it would be well that they should give heed, for
it says to them, be strong. These are times when strength is needed.
It has become a trite saying, that we live at a railroad pace; and it
seems as if it is no use trying to slacken the speed, and there is
nothing to do but to go forward, as all the world is doing. But there
never were times that made such heavy demands upon physical and mental
strength. There seems no room for the feeble. They are almost certain
to be pushed and jostled out of the way. And women that are really
weak have not only to suffer themselves, but they are the cause of
suffering to other people also. Therefore it becomes our daughters to
cultivate the strength which they will so surely need. And it is quite
possible to do this. Grace Darling was not naturally strong, she was
but a slender girl, whose life passed away soon; but she would not have
been able to take an oar and propel the boat across the seething waves,
if she had not had plenty of fresh bracing air,
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