FREE BOOKS

Author's List




PREV.   NEXT  
|<   87   88   89   90   91   92   93   94   95   96   97   98   99   100   101   102   103   104   105   106   107   108   109   110   111  
112   113   114   115   116   117   118   119   120   121   122   123   124   125   126   127   128   129   130   131   132   133   134   135   136   >>   >|  
ssed me, it was bliss. Well, I married him and we came to this beautiful home, and that thrill of delight continued between me and Charles for about two months, and during that time I was living in my ideal world. But after two months I noticed a little less of that feeling, and it kept growing less and less, till now there is none at all. I love him with my whole heart, and am devoted to him, my environments are the same, or better in many ways, seeing that I am a happy mother, and the place has now more comforts and conveniences than when I came here as a bride; yet that attraction has gone so that when Charles kisses me or touches me it seems as if it was my own self kissed me and touched me--to make the union a perfect one, the delight of attraction should always be present; in that way I have not realized my ideal." Penloe said: "Do you know, Mrs. Herne, there are more than a million couples whose experience is exactly like your own; and if your environments had not been so pleasant, and both of your dispositions well blended, and well balanced, you would have separated long ago, as many have done, not knowing the real cause, and thinking it was something else. You see," continued Penloe, "before you were married, you and your husband had both led pure, virtuous lives; and each of you was like a strong electric battery, charged with the life forces of the body, which produced this pleasant feeling of attraction, and when you were married both of you thought and acted like most other married people." Mrs. Herne said: "Thank you, Penloe; the ideas you have advanced should become common property of the many." Penloe replied: "Yes; but there are some who have these ideas, but don't wish to put them in practice." Mrs. Herne said: "Penloe, suppose that two married persons having been living as most married persons do, and one of the two wished to live the better way which you have just described, while the other wished to live as they have been doing, what would be best to do in a case like that?" Penloe replied: "That is a matter that requires the best judgment possible, so as not to give offence. Great diplomacy must be used where hard feelings are liable to be produced; but there is one thing that must always be kept in view and that is that the one who wishes to live the better way must be true to himself or herself. The matter should be presented in a very kindly way, showing that it is as much for the in
PREV.   NEXT  
|<   87   88   89   90   91   92   93   94   95   96   97   98   99   100   101   102   103   104   105   106   107   108   109   110   111  
112   113   114   115   116   117   118   119   120   121   122   123   124   125   126   127   128   129   130   131   132   133   134   135   136   >>   >|  



Top keywords:

married

 

Penloe

 

attraction

 
Charles
 
persons
 

delight

 

continued

 

months

 
matter
 

living


produced
 

replied

 

pleasant

 

wished

 

environments

 

feeling

 

common

 

advanced

 
property
 

wishes


presented

 

charged

 

battery

 

strong

 

electric

 

forces

 

people

 

kindly

 

showing

 

thought


judgment

 

requires

 
offence
 

diplomacy

 

practice

 

suppose

 

liable

 
feelings
 
knowing
 

conveniences


mother

 
comforts
 

kissed

 

touched

 
kisses
 
touches
 

growing

 

devoted

 

noticed

 

perfect