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[MANNERS AND SOCIAL CUSTOMS 685]

Many books on etiquette are written, most of which are intended for those
in fashionable society who have a number of servants and entertain both
extensively and expensively. Other writers take too much for granted; they
presuppose a knowledge of the subject which the novice who needs
instruction does not possess. This department is intended for those who
desire to add to their knowledge of social forms, who do not wish to
appear ignorant and awkward, and who, in a more limited social sphere,
still wish to entertain properly and pleasantly, and comport themselves in
correct form.

CONCERNING INTRODUCTIONS.

The first and most positive rule in regard to introductions is that a man
is introduced to a woman; never the reverse, no matter how distinguished
the man may be.

The best form is the simplest. "Mrs. A., allow me to introduce Mr. B." If
the introduction has been solicited, the hostess may say "Mrs. A., Mr. B.
desires the honor of knowing you." If either party resides in another
city, she may mention the fact, or any other little circumstance that may
aid the two to enter into conversation. The woman does not rise when a man
is introduced, but if she is standing may offer her hand. To say "How do
you do" is much better form than "Glad to know you" or "Pleased to meet
you,"

The person who performs an introduction should be careful to choose an
opportune moment. Do not interrupt a conversation to introduce another
party, unless, as hostess, you feel it has continued so long that it is
time the talk became more general. It is not courteous to simply
acknowledge an introduction, and not exchange a few words.

Women and Introductions.--In introducing women, the younger is introduced
to the older; if nearly of the same age a distinction is immaterial. Young
girls are introduced to matrons, and the younger matrons to those older.

If a woman is seated when another woman is introduced she should rise and
offer her hand, and then invite the new acquaintance to a seat near her
where they may converse. If a man has been talking with the lady who
rises, he should rise also and remain standing until they are seated, when
he may bow and take himself away unless requested to remain. Generally,
this is the proper moment to leave.

When Calling.--If making a call, and another visitor enters, the lady of
the house rises to greet her and introduces any other guests who may be
pre