anity."
As regards his devotion to me and mine, I would say, there are
but few brothers-in-law, and they hard-hearted, and regardless of the
world's opinion, who could have refused to be the friend and brother of
a helpless family, thus left in the midst of strangers. But how often
do you see men so steadfast, so disinterested and devoted through life?
Where is the man to be found that would not have murmured--that would
not, at some time, have let an impatient word drop, showing that he
felt the burden of the care and responsibility brought on him by
marrying, and thus, at least, have wounded the wife of his bosom?
Where is the man to be found, that, under such circumstances, has
secured to himself the devoted love, and the unbounded confidence and
admiration of a proud-spirited family, such as mine are? Many, indeed,
must have been his virtues, clear and sound his judgment, upright and
pure his daily walk and conversation, cheerful and confiding his
demeanor.
Affectionately yours, GRANDMA.
BELMONT, January, 1861.
Letter Six
MY DEAR GRANDCHILDREN:
In my previous letters I have endeavored, with the best lights I
have, to show you the circumstances and surroundings of your
grandfather's early life, by giving you a sketch of his parentage,
associations, youthful characteristics, etc.
But now, I am entering upon a new era. He is a married man--has
left the paternal roof, and is forming new associations. The romance
of the vine-covered cottage, with the girl of his heart--which, as
fortune smiled, should gradually grow into the stately mansion, with
none to share or distract the peculiar joys of early married life, when
all is couleur de rose--were not for him. Life is too earnest for
romance; for high and holy responsibilities, in the dispensations of an
all-wise Providence, he has to meet and to discharge. He is young and
inexperienced, but here are boys, bound to him by a new, but tender
tie, just entering the most dangerous period of life, without their
natural guides; here are girls, unused to the hard usages of
misfortune, suddenly deprived of all "save innocence and Heaven," and
he is their only earthly protector and friend.
Our parents were both of English descent, and Virginians by
birth. They were married young, and settled upon the hereditary estate
of my mother, which consisted of a well-improved Virginia plantation.
There they lived, with nothing to interrupt the quiet
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