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us impression. While the critic is holding up the bad arrangement, and setting in a ludicrous point of view the lame figures, perhaps the servant behind his chair, who was almost persuaded to be a Christian by that very discourse, gives up his purposes, in losing his respect for the sermon; this was thoughtless--but the evil is done, and the man who did it is responsible for it." "I think," said Helen, "that a great deal of evil is done to children in this way, by our not thinking of what we are saying." "It seems to me," said Miss B., "that this view of the subject will reduce us to silence almost as much as the other. How is one ever to estimate the consequences of their words, people are affected in so many different ways by the same thing?" "I suppose," said her uncle, "we are only responsible for such results as by carefulness and reflection we might have foreseen. It is not for _ill-judged_ words, but for idle words, that we are to be judged--words uttered without any consideration at all, and producing bad results. If a person really anxious to do right misjudges as to the probable effect of what he is about to say on others, it is quite another thing." "But, uncle, will not such carefulness destroy all freedom in conversation?" said Helen. "If you are talking with a beloved friend, Helen, do you not use an _instinctive_ care to avoid all that might pain that friend?" "Certainly." "And do you find this effort a restraint on your enjoyment?" "Certainly not." "And you, from your own feelings, avoid what is indelicate and impure in conversation, and yet feel it no restraint?" "Certainly." "Well, I suppose the object of Christian effort should be so to realize the character of our Savior, and conform our tastes and sympathies to his, that we shall _instinctively_ avoid all in our conversation that would be displeasing to him. A person habitually indulging jealous, angry, or revengeful feeling--a person habitually worldly in his spirit--a person allowing himself in sceptical and unsettled habits of thought, _cannot_ talk without doing harm. This is our Savior's account of the matter in the verses immediately before the passage we were speaking of--'How _can_ ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth
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