FREE BOOKS

Author's List




PREV.   NEXT  
|<   170   171   172   173   174   175   176   177   178   179   180   181   182   183   184   185   186   187   188   189   190   191   192   193   194  
195   196   197   198   199   200   201   202   203   204   205   206   207   208   209   210   211   212   213   214   215   216   217   218   219   >>   >|  
for religion; they are punctual at church, and very attentive to the service:" Mrs, Wilson smiled as he proceeded, "but religion may come after marriage, you know." "Yes, brother, and I know it may not come at all; no really pious woman can be happy, without her husband is in what she deems the road to future happiness himself; and it is idle--it is worse--it is almost impious to marry with a view to reform a husband: indeed, she greatly endangers her own safety thereby; for few of us, I believe, but find the temptation to err as much as we can contend with, without calling in the aid of example against us, in an object we love; indeed it appears to me, the life of such a woman must be a struggle between conflicting duties." "Why," said the baronet, "if your plan were generally adopted, I am afraid it would give a deadly blow to matrimony." "I have nothing to do with generals, brother, I am acting for individual happiness, and discharging individual duties: at the same time I cannot agree with you in its effects on the community. I think no man who dispassionately examines the subject, will be other than a Christian; and rather than remain bachelors, they would take even that trouble; if the strife in our sex were less for a husband, wives would increase in value." "But how is it, Charlotte," said the baronet, pleasantly, "your sex do not use your power and reform the age?" "The work of reformation, Sir Edward," replied his sister, gravely, "is an arduous one indeed, and I despair of seeing it general, in my day; but much, very much, might be done towards it, if those who have the guidance of youth would take that trouble with their pupils that good faith requires of them, to discharge the minor duties of life." "Women ought to marry," observed the baronet, musing. "Marriage is certainly the natural and most desirable state for a woman," but how few are there who, having entered it, know how to discharge its duties; more particularly those of a mother! On the subject of marrying our daughters, for instance, instead of qualifying them to make a proper choice, they are generally left to pick up such principles and opinions as they may come at, as it were by chance. It is true, if the parent be a Christian in name, certain of the externals of religion are observed; but what are these, if not enforced by a consistent example in the instructor?" "Useful precepts are seldom lost, I believe, sister," said Sir E
PREV.   NEXT  
|<   170   171   172   173   174   175   176   177   178   179   180   181   182   183   184   185   186   187   188   189   190   191   192   193   194  
195   196   197   198   199   200   201   202   203   204   205   206   207   208   209   210   211   212   213   214   215   216   217   218   219   >>   >|  



Top keywords:

duties

 

husband

 
baronet
 

religion

 

sister

 
reform
 

Christian

 
individual
 
observed
 

subject


brother
 

discharge

 

generally

 

trouble

 

happiness

 

pupils

 

requires

 

guidance

 

gravely

 
reformation

Edward
 

replied

 

general

 
despair
 
arduous
 

musing

 

qualifying

 
externals
 

proper

 

instance


marrying
 

daughters

 

choice

 
chance
 

opinions

 

principles

 

mother

 

consistent

 

enforced

 
parent

instructor

 
Useful
 

seldom

 
precepts
 
Marriage
 

entered

 
pleasantly
 

natural

 

desirable

 
discharging