ore attention to the rearing and
training of his children than does the modern father; for the present
public school has largely lessened the responsibilities of parenthood.
Both husband and wife were much more "home bodies" than are the modern
couple. There were but few attractions to draw the husband away from the
family hearth at night, and hard physical labor, far more common than
now, made the restful home evenings and Sundays exceedingly welcome.
Due to the crude household implements and the large families, the wife
and mother undoubtedly endured far more physical strain and hardships
than fall to the lot of the modern woman. The life of colonial woman,
with the incessant childbearing and preparation of a multitude of things
now made in factories, probably wasted an undue amount of nervous
energy; but it is doubtful whether the modern woman, with her numerous
outside activities and nerve-racking social requirements has any
advantage in this phase of the matter. The colonial wife was indeed a
power in the affairs of home, and thus indirectly exerted a genuine
influence over her husband. And not only the mother but the father was
vitally interested in domestic affairs that many a man of to-day, and
many a woman too, would consider too petty for their attention.
In spite of all the colonial disadvantages, as we view them, it seems
undeniably true that those wives who have left any written record of
their lives were truly happy. Perhaps their intensely busy existence
left them but little time to brood over wrongs or fancied ills; more
probably their deep love for the strong, level-headed and generally
clean-hearted men who established this nation made life exceedingly
worth while. Surely, the sanity, order, and stability of those homes of
long ago have had much to do with the physical and moral excellence that
have been so generally characteristic of the American people.
FOOTNOTES:
[75] _Several Poems Compiled with Great Variety of Wit and Learning_,
1678.
[76] _Letters of A. Adams_, pp. 10, 89, 93.
[77] Brown: _Mercy Warren_, pp. 73, 95.
[78] Brown: _Mercy Warren_, p. 98.
[79] Wharton: _Martha Washington_, p. 85.
[80] Smyth: _Writings of B. Franklin_, Vol. III, p. 245.
[81] Ravenel: _Eliza Pinckney_, pp. 93, 175.
[82] Bassett: _Writings of Col. William Byrd_, pp. 356-358.
[83] Wharton: _Martha Washington_, p. 153.
[84] Page 242.
[85] _English Garner_, Vol. II, p. 584.
[86] Earle: _
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