of which a varied reiteration of "Faithful and true" serves
as an affecting expression of the sentiment of the hour. The most
enjoyable tears are shed by the emotional under this inspiration. But
other people prefer the solemn stillness, broken only by the voice of
the priest and the responses of the high contracting parties. It is a
matter of taste and feeling; and those interested are at liberty to
indulge either fancy.
The bride stands at the left of the groom during the ceremony; and also
takes his left arm at the close. When the ceremony is concluded, the
officiating clergyman congratulates the couple, but does not kiss the
bride as formerly. In the Episcopal Church, and any other churches
where it is the duty of the contracting parties to sign the parish
register, the clergyman, the newly wedded pair, and their witnesses,
now retire to the sacristry for this purpose. On their return to the
chancel, the organ peals forth the Wedding March; the bride and groom
lead the bridal party in returning down the aisle, the bridesmaids and
ushers following in due order, and after them the nearest relatives;
and all, entering their carriages, are driven at once to the home of
the bride's parents.
After a morning, or "high noon" wedding, a "breakfast" is usually
served. If the ceremony has been a nuptial mass, in the Catholic or
High Church ritual, the bridal party have--presumably--observed the
fast, before the mass; therefore, the "breakfast" is really a
breakfast. However, the term is popularly used by non-ritualists, when
the ceremony bears no relation to the mass; and regardless of the fact
that the real breakfast has been taken at the usual hour.
A bride may wear full dress at any hour, day or evening; but
_decollete_ dress is not good form at a church wedding, nor is it
allowed in the Catholic church. White is the preferred color for a
young bride. A widow-bride, on the contrary, should choose some other
color; and she wears neither veil nor orange-blossoms.
Details of fashion vary so constantly that specific directions cannot
be given with any assumption of final authority. A fashionable modiste
should be consulted in the emergency.
The dress worn by a guest at a wedding may be as rich as desired, but
should not have a bridal appearance. Sometimes a recent bride wears
her own wedding gown at a friend's wedding; but it is in better taste
not to do so, nor in any other way to invite comparisons. Th
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