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uarters; they seemed to prefer the dirt and disease, the sickness and vice to which they were accustomed. "She did not know the force of habit; she was totally ignorant of the hard and fast condition into which people grow. She had never stopped to consider how necessary it is for the world at large to have such repression. Without this control there could be no peace, no safety, no steady growth in civilized society. The poor would attack the rich, the lawless and violent would assail the peaceful, the indolent would refuse to labor, the regularity and studied discipline of well-ordered life would absolutely cease. In their place anarchy would reign and each day would make confusion worse confounded. Imagine, if you can, what animals would be if they lacked restraint of habit. Man's power over them would cease instantly and their strength would be a terrible engine of destruction. Men would be as much worse as human intelligence exceeds brute intelligence. One is quite safe in declaring that habit is the great flywheel that regulates society." Desirable habits, therefore, together with all necessary reforms, must come about slowly; they should be the result of conscious training and education in all the factors that make for a higher civilization. LESSON IX QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 1. What are some habits essential to success? 2. When should training to fix these habits begin? Why? 3. Why do many parents fail to fix right habits in their children? 4. How may wrong habits be overcome and right habits established? 5. What does Solomon say in regard to training the child? 6. Give reasons why community habits are so hard to change? What is the good side of this strength of habit? 7. What is the quickest and surest way to bring about desirable social reforms? MAXIMS ON HABIT _Professor James Gives Four Maxims to Follow in Breaking from an Old Habit or in Acquiring a New One_ "1. _Take care 'o launch yourself with as strong and decided initiative as possible_. Reinforce the right motive with every favorable circumstance; put yourself in a condition that will make the right act easy and the wrong one difficult. Take a public pledge if the case allows; in short, envelop your resolution with every aid possible. "2. _Never suffer an exception to occur until the new habit is securely rooted_. Each lapse is like the letting fall of a ball of yarn that is being wound; a single slip undoes
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