grain of happiness. You
will be surprised to find how much that has seemed hopelessly
disagreeable possesses either an instructive or an amusing side.
There is a certain happiness to be found in the most disagreeable duty
when you stop to realize that you are getting it out of the way.
If it is one of those duties which has the uncomfortable habit of
repeating itself continually, you can at least say you are learning
patience and perseverance, which are two great virtues and essential to
any permanent happiness in life.
Do not anticipate the happiness of to-morrow, but discover it in
to-day. Unless you are in the profound depths of some great sorrow,
you will find it if you look for it.
Think of yourself each morning as an explorer in a new realm. I know a
man whose time is gold, and he carefully arranged his plans to take
three hours for a certain pleasure. He lost his way and missed his
pleasure, but was full of exuberant delight over his "new experience."
"I saw places and met with adventures I might have missed my whole
life." He was a true philosopher and optimist and such a man gets the
very kernel out of the nut of life.
I know a woman who had since her birth every material blessing, health,
wealth, position, travel and a luxurious home. She was forever
complaining of the cares and responsibilities of the latter. Finally
she prevailed upon the family to rent the home for a series of years
and to live in hotels. Now she goes about posing as a martyr, "a
homeless woman." It is impossible for such a selfishly perverted
nature to know happiness.
A child should be taught from its earliest life to find entertainment
in every kind of condition or weather. If it hears its elders cursing
and bemoaning a rainy day the child's plastic mind is quick to receive
the impression that a rainy day is a disaster.
How much better to expatiate in its presence on the blessing of rain,
and to teach it the enjoyment of all nature's varying moods, which
other young animals feel.
Happiness must come from within in order to respond to that which comes
from without, just as there must be a musical ear and temperament to
enjoy music.
Cultivate happiness as an art or science.
A Worn Out Creed
I have a letter from an "orthodox Christian," who says the only hope
for humanity lies in the "old-fashioned religion."
Then he proceeds to tell me how carefully he has studied human nature,
"in business, in so
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