. It was only in the field that the
Lacedemonians were accustomed to use perfumes and curl their hair.
6. Never let the finery of chains and rings seem your own choice; that
which naturally belongs to women should appear only worn for their sake.
We dignify foppery, when we invest it with a sentiment.
7. To win the affection of your mistress, appear negligent in your
costume--to preserve it, assiduous: the first is a sign of the passion
of love; the second, of its respect.
8. A man must be a profound calculator to be a consummate dresser. One
must not dress the same, whether one goes to a minister or a mistress;
an avaricious uncle, or an ostentatious cousin: there is no diplomacy
more subtle than that of dress.
9. Is the great man whom you would conciliate a coxcomb?--go to him in
a waistcoat like his own. "Imitation," says the author of Lacon, "is the
sincerest flattery."
10. The handsome may be shewy in dress, the plain should study to
be unexceptionable; just as in great men we look for something to
admire--in ordinary men we ask for nothing to forgive.
11. There is a study of dress for the aged, as well as for the young.
Inattention is no less indecorous in one than in the other; we may
distinguish the taste appropriate to each, by the reflection that youth
is made to be loved--age, to be respected.
12. A fool may dress gaudily, but a fool cannot dress well--for to
dress well requires judgment; and Rochefaucault says with truth, "On
est quelquefois un sot avec de l'esprit, mais on ne lest jamais avec du
jugement."
13. There may be more pathos in the fall of a collar, or the curl of a
lock, than the shallow think for. Should we be so apt as we are now to
compassionate the misfortunes, and to forgive the insincerity of Charles
I., if his pictures had pourtrayed him in a bob wig and a pigtail?
Vandyke was a greater sophist than Hume.
14. The most graceful principle of dress is neatness--the most vulgar is
preciseness.
15. Dress contains the two codes of morality--private and public.
Attention is the duty we owe to others--cleanliness that which we owe to
ourselves.
16. Dress so that it may never be said of you "What a well dressed
man!"--but, "What a gentlemanlike man!"
17. Avoid many colours; and seek, by some one prevalent and quiet tint,
to sober down the others. Apelles used only four colours, and always
subdued those which were more florid, by a darkening varnish.
18. Nothing is supe
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