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ith commendable carefulness": "Let your recreations be manful, not sinful." "I think it is remarkable, as you say, that one so young as George should make such a collection of rules," said Mrs. Washington. "May it not be that a remarkable future is before him?" "It may be, and I am inclined to think it will be," answered Lawrence. "If a bright spring-time is the harbinger of an ample harvest, such a youth must foreshadow noble manhood." Thus were George's "Rules of Behavior in Company and Conversation" discussed at Mount Vernon, and the young author of them was more admired in consequence. We will furnish our readers with more of his "Rules," since all of them are important, and had much to do, doubtless, with the formation of George's character. "Speak not of doleful things in time of mirth, nor at the table; speak not of melancholy things, as death and wounds; and if others mention them, change, if you can, the discourse. Tell not your dreams but to your intimate friend. "Break not a jest when none take pleasure in mirth; laugh not loud, nor at all, without occasion; deride no man's misfortune, though there seem to be some cause. "Speak not injurious words, neither in jest nor earnest; scoff at none, although they give occasion. "Seek not to lessen the merits of others; neither give more than due praise. "Go not thither where you know not whether you shall be welcome. "Give not advice without being asked; and when desired, do it briefly. "Reprove not the imperfections of others, for that belongs to parents, masters and superiors. "Gaze not on the marks and blemishes of others, and ask not how they came. What you may speak in secret to your friend, deliver not before others. "Think before you speak; pronounce not imperfectly, nor bring out your words too hastily, but orderly and distinctly. "When another speaks, be attentive yourself, and disturb not the audience. If any hesitate in his words, help him not, nor prompt him, without being desired; interrupt him not, nor answer him, until his speech be ended. "Treat with men at right times about business, and whisper not, in the company of others. "Be not in haste to relate news if you know not the truth thereof. "Be not curious to know the affairs of others, neither approach those that speak in private. "Undertake not what you cannot perform, but be careful to keep your promise. "Speak not evil of the absent, for it is unju
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