use or justify a single blow the Bully ever
struck, we must bear in mind this one thing.
There is a certain class of people to whom power becomes a ruling
passion. Somebody must be made to feel, and somebody must be brought to
acknowledge it. These people are generally those who have the greatest
possible aversion to enduring oppression in their own persons, or who
have themselves in their time been roughly handled. They love to see
others quail before them, as they themselves would be ready to quail
before those they hold in awe; and it is no small set-off against their
own terrors to feel themselves in turn objects of terror to others.
People of this sort are of course generally cowards and toadies, and in
bullying they find the fullest gratification of their craving for power.
Bob may sometimes feel a passing pity for the poor little wretch he is
tormenting; but until that poor little wretch consents to knuckle under,
to apologise, to obey, to accuse himself, in the manner Bob selects, he
must not be spared.
Boys who want to understand what real bullying is, should call to mind
that parable about the servant who, having quailed and cringed and
implored before his lord until he was forgiven his huge debt, forthwith
pounced on a poor fellow-servant who happened to owe him a few
shillings, and, deaf to the very entreaties which he himself had but a
minute before used, haled him off to gaol till the last farthing should
be paid.
He was bad enough; but the wolf in Aesop's fable was still worse. The
poor lamb there owed nothing; it only chanced to be drinking of the same
stream.
"What do you mean by polluting my water?" growls the wolf.
"I am drinking lower down than you," replies the innocent, "and so that
cannot be."
"Never mind, you called me names a year ago."
"Please, sir, a year ago I wasn't born."
"Well, then, it was your father, and it's all the same thing; and,
what's more, you need not think I'm going to be done out of my breakfast
by your talk--so here goes!" And we all know what became of the poor
lamb. A gentleman cannot be a bully, and a bully cannot be a gentleman.
By gentleman I mean not the vulgar use of the word. The rich snob who
keeps his carriages, and counts his income with five or six figures, and
considers that sufficient title to the name, may be, and often is, a
bully. His servants may lead the lives of dogs, his tradesmen dread the
sound of his voice, and his dependant
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