t of servants, 155-159.

Manners, 530-539;
definition of, 2;
in clubs, 518-520;
at home, 587-592;
at the table, 371-586;
at the theater, 40-43;
of Americans abroad, 604-607, 612-613;
of a hostess, 218-219.

Married couples. See: Husband and wife;
young couples.

Married woman, how to introduce, 6;
how to shake hands with, 20;
name of, 458-459;
visiting card of, 77.
See also: Husband and wife.

Mayor, close of letter to, 487;
how to address, 486;
how to announce as a guest, 214;
how to introduce, 487.

Meeting, at church, 19-20;
in the Street, 20.

Men and women, relations between, 292-293, 502-303, 505-509.

Menus. See: Beverages; Food.

Menu cards, 210.

Military officer, visiting card of, 78.

Minister Plenipotentiary, 215, 488-489.

Mr. and Mrs. in conversation, 54;
Money, conversation about, 506;
and social position, 71-72, 410.

Motoring, 128, 293, 614-615.

Mourners, how to address, 399.

Mourning, 399-406;
bridesmaid in, 329;
for funeral, 392-393;
stationery, 453.

Moving pictures, 40, 293.

Music at a ball, 225;
at a dinner, 250, 251;
at a funeral, 396;
at a wedding, 315-316, 338-342, 357-359.

Musicale, 124.

Names, 54, 76-78, 458-459, 508.

Napkin ring, 204.

Napkins, 220-221, 241, 444, 575.

National anthem, 23.

Neighbors, new, afternoon tea in honor of, 168.
See also: Strangers, 168.

Newspapers, 304, 390, 417, 509.

"Not at home," 84-86.

Note of apology, 462-463.

Nurse, 152-153.

Office buildings, etiquette in, 22.

Open air gatherings, 46.

Opera, 12, 20, 310, 546-547, 569;
chapter on, 33-37.

Orange blossoms at second marriage, 375.

P.P.C. cards, 79.

Packages, 29.

Pall bearers, 391-392, 569.

Paris clothes, 353, 539-561.

Parlor maid, 148.

Party calls, 81.

Parties, attendance of a lady at, 32;
kissing at, 96;
non-return of, 71;
afternoon, chapter on, 165-176;
children's, 580-581;
engaged couples, 306-307;
opera, 35;
theater, 38, 43.
See also: House party.

Passing of colors, removal of hat at, 23.

Payment, etiquette of, 31.
See also: Debts.

Peas, how